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pain in the nuts
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pain in the nuts
by mrlizzy, Mar 07, 2008 12:56PM
my girlfriend likes to take charge, if you know what i mean. she gets me to where i am about to climax and them prevents me from doing so. she does this the entire time we are together sexually she does not want me to climax when i am with her. so i have to go to the bathroom and masturbate when she falls a sleep. she also likes to get painfully rough with my testicles during this play time for her because she knows that will make me want or need to climax. this is becoming very PAINFUL now we are to be married next month. what do i do?
No offense, but if you have to hide your orgasm in the bathroom after you have sex, I don't foresee a particularly healthy sexual relationship for you two. Is your sexual relationship only about how she feels? A healthy relationship is about how both people feel, and having their feelings recognized and respected. It sounds like your girlfriend has control issues.