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Help Me :( Relationship Problems
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Help Me :( Relationship Problems
by lucy1989, Mar 20, 2008 05:14PM
I’m 16 and I’ve been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. I think I’m falling out of love with him. I hardly feel anything in my heart for him anymore. But I’m scared of being on my own. He is very sociable, while I’m not, but I enjoy his company. With him being sociable it worries me. I always found him flirty but he would say he would never cheat on me. I get jealous even if he is just talking to his mates girlfriend. He’s like something I want to be, someone confident and outgoing. Many girls have asked him out and what to be with him and it gets to me. What should I do? Could I fall back in love with him or should I move on?
Member Comments (3)
by vmvnpv, Mar 20, 2008 07:22PM
I would take a break from him. If you don't love him any more than you are doing yourself, nor him, any good. Maybe after a break your old feelings will rekindle but if they don't you guys weren't meant to be together (but can still be friends). You're still very young and believe me when I say you will meet and fall in love a few more times before you even think of getting married. I know how hard it is though. I was 16 once and it really sucks. It will be hard at first but you'll be fine. You won't be alone. You have family and friends that will support you. Go out with your friends to keep your mind off of him and I promise, with time, you'll feel better. I wish you luck and happiness.
by Tommy420, Mar 26, 2008 07:40PM
Let him go...if you don't love him anymore, it's not fair for you to hold him back just because you might not want to see him date other girls. You're only 16...way too young to be in a serious relationship.
by jml1986, Mar 27, 2008 12:45PM
At your age there is nothing wrong with moving on. You may even find it easier to work on your social skills when you are not with him. Really social people tend to take over conversations because they are so out going and although it is not their intention, they make it even harder for a shy person to come out of their shell.
