I'm very confused about everything.

[cntrygrlluvin]

well let's see.. My problem is, I did have a period this month. And, I think it's about O time. But, can you just "feel pregnant" around then? I know that you can't be pregnant if your ovulating. I just don't know if I'm O or not. I have very sore breasts. They hurt so bad. My stomach feels weird. I've gained 2 pounds in the last 2 1/2 weeks. I've had some major discharge. Creamy milky white. A few headaches and a few cramps. I've been having some soreness around my belly button. And cramps between my ovaries. Lower back pain and all that great stuff :\ ..


Anyone have some websites that will help me decide either to take a htp or if it's O?
I had my period around the 8th or 9th.

[Rosa20]

sounds like your ovulating to me!! Thats what all that cm is for!! YOu can take a test just to be sure..some women do get there period and still be pregnant! are you wanting a baby or no??

[JoyRenee]

Do you want to get pregnant? If so, have sex now! All of that cervical mucous (CM) or what you called discharge means you're most likely ovulating. You can get all those symptoms during ovulation.

[cntrygrlluvin]

Thanks ladies. I jumped into bed with my partner lastnight. I'm young.. yes that's true.. [20].. But I've been with my boyfriend for soo long. 5 years. We've been living together for 3 1/2 years. I would really love a baby. He doesn't want a baby right now. But, he's not really trying to prevent it either.  We use the pull out method. And, lastnight a little bit of sperm ran down between my legs and when I went to wipe it off, I seen that some got inside b4 I got to it. Can you get pregnant from that small amount?

[pinkbelle]

You can get pregnant from any amount of sperm. I am currently pregnant (26 weeks) and I got pregnant when i was 21 and im still in college so dont feel so bad for being 20 and wanting to get pregnant : ] If you feel the time is right and you feel you are ready then I say go for it.. but I would talk to your boyfriend to make sure he is ready to... This is something you both need to be ready for.  Try to figure out when you ovulate that really helps and BD during that time or every other day thats how I got pregnant : ] Good Luck!

[carissarae]

yes you can get preggo from a small amount that small amount can contain hundreds or thousands of spermies..good luck!

[cntrygrlluvin]

=]]
I do feel like the time is right. When I say he doesn't want a baby, I really mean he's scared to try for one b/c I either may not get pregnant or lose the baby in the first few weeks. He's seen a few women talking about how they had a miscarriage.
So to him whatever happens... happens... I don't want to force him to say "let's try" ya know?

But I'm sure he's aware that it's a possibility that it could happen.


So talking about the future deal... let's say he got me pregnant this time... When would I know? I know it's sometime after O right?

[pinkbelle]

TEchnically you are suppose to wait til you miss your period but I found out 4 days before I missed mine .. i think the earliest is like 9 or 10 days past ovulation

[cntrygrlluvin]

Okk thanks.
And if I'm not pregnant soon then I guess I'll have other times. I'll just see what happens this time. I AM ovualting.. I noticed the ewcm yesterday. And the day b4 and a REALLY small amount today.

I looked it up and O has the ewcm so I'm assuming that's it.

[cntrygrlluvin]

anyone have some websites that have calendars and stuff so I can chart things?

[JoyRenee]

Fertility Friend is one! I also like www. pregnancyweekly .com (ignore the spaces).

The last day you have EWCM is the day you actually ovulate. So just have sex during that time to become pregnant. I got pregnant on the first try with my 2nd daughter when I had sex when I had EWCM!

I was 19 when I got pregnant the first time. I'm 23 now and I've had 3 pregnancies (2 little girls and one m/c).

[cntrygrlluvin]

Ohh thanks.

Well today is a REALLY REALLY small amount. The day b4 yesterday, it was a HUGE blob. I was like wow, my body can do that! haha.  
And, yesterday it kept coming out little by little.
My bf told me if I get pregnant then it happens.
But I really want a baby. I just don't want to be sneaky and put some sperm in there when he's not looking! ahaha.. TMI.

So I think if I get pregnant this way then that's ok with me. It'll happen when it's suppose to.
I think it was about half a teaspoon of sperm that got inside lastnight. So maybe baby? =]]

[cntrygrlluvin]

LADIESSSS... my bf came home from work a few minutes ago. He just left to go to a viewing for his grandpa. I never met him so I didn't go.. But...


when he came in the door he looked at me and said.. "Do you want a baby?"
And, I said. Well to be honest I would love a baby.
Then he went and got ready to go... Before he walked out of the door he gave me a hug and a kiss and said when I get home tonight.. We'll start trying!!!




I'M SOOOOOOO HAPPPPYYYYYYYYYYYY