This forum is for questions and support regarding neurology issues such as:
Alzheimer's Disease,
ALS,
Autism, Brain Cancer,
Cerebral Palsy, Chronic Pain,
Epilepsy,
Fibromyalgia, Headaches, MS, Neuralgia, Neuropathy, Parkinson's Disease, RSD, Sleep Disorders,
Stroke, Traumatic Brain Injury
I would say, don't accept them saying you are crazy. If you watch Mystery Diagnosis you will see case after case of people who are told they are crazy and they are not.
I am so thankful my neurologist has been so thorough; she has ordered test after test because she knew something was wrong but couldn't put her finger on it. I did have hyperreflexia and clonus which were tangible things she could see, everything else was my word. But my first neurologist saw me repeatedly and never even tested my reflexes and said he couldn't find anything wrong.
I am very fatigued all the time (and I used to be very very active), spend a good chunk of the day propped up in bed, can sit up for a few hours then I am wiped out. I can walk maybe 10 steps on a good day holding on to things, but I am wiped out afterward. I get spells of shaking tremors and numbness and paralysis and spasticity that last about like your wife's do and they are very much brought on by too much exertion or emotion. I also have trouble breating due to a tight constricting feeling around my chest when these spells happen. And sometimes I break out in what appears to be hives.
My neuro sent me to an endocrinologist to check for endocrine disease and I just found out yesterday that two of the tests came back weakly positive: adrenal antibodies and celiac disease, so I now have three sets of antibodies found in smallish numbers, a positive test for autonomic dysfunction, and positive for demyelinating polyneuropathy, but the results of the tests were strange because my adrenal function at that moment seemed to be fine. He is running more tests, but I sometimes wonder if I am a "new disease". Maybe your wife and I will be case 1 and 2 of some newly discovered illness.
My advice to you is find a doctor who will listen and really examine and test your wife. And let me know how it is going. And one other thing, my doc traced back my autoimmune illness to dysentery almost two years ago. You might start journalling her symptoms and retracing her history to when the problem started.
Keep pursuing an answer and may God direct your steps.