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Masturbation and Vaginal Fluid
by bundyboy, Apr 01, 2008 02:07AM
Hi
Apologies for what is probably a really dumb question. I have looked through the archives and believe that I have seen the answers that I seek. However, it's always good to get a direct answer to your own specific question.
I'm in the UK and recently visited a sex worker. The only things I did were:
1) I sucked/licked her nipples - I'm 99.99% certain there's no risk through this.
2) She masturbated me, but previously she had been fingering herself and may have had some vaginal fluid on her hand when she masturbated me - this is what I am concerned about. I know from what I've read that Hand-to-Genital contact isn't a risk, but does this change due to her vaginal fluids.
The thing that I tend to get hung up is that I know sexual transmission requires penetration but I then think that the above act still included vaginal fluids touching my penis which would happen during penetration and in some way, I'm not able to seperate the two things. Am I thinking about this too much or getting myself tied in the mechanics of this rather than the simple facts?
I will point out that I am married and have no excuses for my behaviour, I'm quite literally quite disgusted with myself. However, I am now becoming quite stressed/anxious, feel nervous about sleeping with my wife and feel that I'm not giving my kids enough attention as I'm worrying about this.
Again I'm really sorry if this is repeating old ground for many of you but my anxiety is taking over at the moment and I'm also sorry if this post is quite lengthy.
Any information, advice, assessment of risk that anyone could provide would be really appreciated.
Regards
Bundyboy
Apologies for what is probably a really dumb question. I have looked through the archives and believe that I have seen the answers that I seek. However, it's always good to get a direct answer to your own specific question.
I'm in the UK and recently visited a sex worker. The only things I did were:
1) I sucked/licked her nipples - I'm 99.99% certain there's no risk through this.
2) She masturbated me, but previously she had been fingering herself and may have had some vaginal fluid on her hand when she masturbated me - this is what I am concerned about. I know from what I've read that Hand-to-Genital contact isn't a risk, but does this change due to her vaginal fluids.
The thing that I tend to get hung up is that I know sexual transmission requires penetration but I then think that the above act still included vaginal fluids touching my penis which would happen during penetration and in some way, I'm not able to seperate the two things. Am I thinking about this too much or getting myself tied in the mechanics of this rather than the simple facts?
I will point out that I am married and have no excuses for my behaviour, I'm quite literally quite disgusted with myself. However, I am now becoming quite stressed/anxious, feel nervous about sleeping with my wife and feel that I'm not giving my kids enough attention as I'm worrying about this.
Again I'm really sorry if this is repeating old ground for many of you but my anxiety is taking over at the moment and I'm also sorry if this post is quite lengthy.
Any information, advice, assessment of risk that anyone could provide would be really appreciated.
Regards
Bundyboy
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Thanks again.