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AM I LOST
by congm, Apr 05, 2008 06:58AM
Dear All,
Nice Day
1st. sorry for my English language
Its really great site I read several stories near to mine, and this made me relaxed some how comparibg with my previouse status, but I still very Anxious and think that its the end of world for me and my family
Here is my stroy:
I'm 40 years old married man, I didn't have any casual sex since I had married 5 years ago, I didn't have any STDs problems and I made several blood tests for STDs. twice before marriage and all was OK
Unfortunately I was outside for work for just one night and I had envolved in just 30 seconds protected Vaginal sex with a sex seller and after I start I said to my self "what a hell you are doing" so I stopped and pulled out ..... the candom was on its place after finishing and nothing seemed to be wrong "The canodm was fixed by the sex seller and also removed by here"
I didn't make any oral sex (no oral sex, no kissing .... Just 20 seconds vaginal sex without completingf) (the woman only kissed and touched my ball cover with here toungue for seconds and aslo kissed and touched with here tounge my (breast (chest)) area all not more 10 seconds
Just I left the place and 5 minuts later I became crazy about what I did and thousnds of bad ideas came to my mind
Second day I came back to my home and I had to make sex with my wife so I made a fully protected vagainal sex with her and I made sure after finishing that the candom 100% ok, but unfortunately I made some vaginal oral sex to her (notice that at that point I didn't had the all bad ideas I had before)
Then one day later I had thousnads of bad ideas, what if questions, more than 10 blood tests, I felt too many symptoms and visit 4 doctors.
Last 52 days I'm searching the net for any information related to STDs.,...
I started to think that the candom may be not working good during that relation with the sex seller (it was durix extra safety- self lubricant) and it may containing any holes or damage which I didn't see .....
I felt that I catched all the STDs.
As I said thousands of what if quastions ...
I thought that this woman could knows that she has HIV (which I don't know of course) and she maybe a member of torirest organization and wanted just to spreed HIV to me so I started to think that she might but bad candom for me ...
I was very disturbed and as I said thousnad of bad I deas came to my mind
The theird day I bought ciprofloxazin 500 and had it for 10 days twice daily
after 2 weeks I started to go for blood tests
- 2 weeks after the relation mad (HIV 1&2&P24 Ag) combo or duo test
- 4 weeks I repeated the above mentioned tets (HIV P24 COMBO) & made HIV by PCR and HBV DNA QUANTITATIVE by cobas amplicor (pcr)
- 6 weeks I made RPR, VDRL, HTPA AND HERBES SELECT TYPE 2
- 7 weeks I made HIV1&2 , HbSAg and HbC total
Thanks GOD all teste came back negative, ....... BUT .......
I had too many syptoms as follows:
- After the realation by around 6 days I had a very light nose pains and sore throut for 4 days
- My wife folloed me after 2 days the same syptoms but stronger (notice that I made sex with here one after that relation (was protected and with oral)
- After 2 weeks two I had very small (0.5 mm ) drak brown points Appeared at the bottom of my penis (when I visited the doctor he didn't saw it and told me its nothing and prescribed anti Fungal for week and they gone
- After 3 weeks a very small red bumps around my upper part of my legs from the outer sides and back side only starts to appear without any itching just a very light jabbing ... I visited the doctor he told me that the brown points no need to but any thing and for the neqwlly appeard pumbs he told my it form anixity and he prescribed vebramicin 100 3 time dauily for 20 days and fucecorte cream ....... now after 7 weeks its about to recover but steel have some of it.
- after 6 weeks from the realtion my wife had got another flu and the doctor said its viral infection and she is OK now.
- Now 7 weeks I didn't have any sex with my wife from the second day of that relation and I'm very worry to make........ (only the one I mentioned using candom the second day of the realtion)
-I mustebated twice and the last one was from one weeks under the shower without any lubricant and it took long time and after that I felt for tow days with a very very light burning sensation and many jabs and now nothing ... its OK
- During this period the urintal problems and no pumbs in my genital area (the doctor checked me three times aslo there were no fever (thanks GOD)
ofcourse alot of muscle pains for me around my nick from time to time I think its from my setting in front og the computer screen for mire than 7 hourse searching the net
Of course this is not all I have alot of what if and supose that !!!??? >>>>
My question to you:
1- Am I at risk of any STDs. from that prescribed realtion I made with the sex seller
2- If I Caught any STD from that realtion (it was only protected vaginal without any oral or even kisses) could I pass it to my wife the second day with the oral I made to here? (if any infection through this protected vaginal sex with the sex seller happened is it possible to spread inside my body and reaches my blod and producted in my slavia within 30 hourse)
the reason for my question is to know if my wife could be infected by (chalmedia, or genu ...) though the oral sex I mad to herthe second day as the vagunal intercorse was completly protected and I'm sure.
3- Are the blod test I made is reaible and should I retested again or the tests is enough and conclusive
4- Can I have sex again with my wife without protection or its better to wait further....?
5- What is your openion for the hall story and my fears?
Please I need your answeres
Thamks
Nice Day
1st. sorry for my English language
Its really great site I read several stories near to mine, and this made me relaxed some how comparibg with my previouse status, but I still very Anxious and think that its the end of world for me and my family
Here is my stroy:
I'm 40 years old married man, I didn't have any casual sex since I had married 5 years ago, I didn't have any STDs problems and I made several blood tests for STDs. twice before marriage and all was OK
Unfortunately I was outside for work for just one night and I had envolved in just 30 seconds protected Vaginal sex with a sex seller and after I start I said to my self "what a hell you are doing" so I stopped and pulled out ..... the candom was on its place after finishing and nothing seemed to be wrong "The canodm was fixed by the sex seller and also removed by here"
I didn't make any oral sex (no oral sex, no kissing .... Just 20 seconds vaginal sex without completingf) (the woman only kissed and touched my ball cover with here toungue for seconds and aslo kissed and touched with here tounge my (breast (chest)) area all not more 10 seconds
Just I left the place and 5 minuts later I became crazy about what I did and thousnds of bad ideas came to my mind
Second day I came back to my home and I had to make sex with my wife so I made a fully protected vagainal sex with her and I made sure after finishing that the candom 100% ok, but unfortunately I made some vaginal oral sex to her (notice that at that point I didn't had the all bad ideas I had before)
Then one day later I had thousnads of bad ideas, what if questions, more than 10 blood tests, I felt too many symptoms and visit 4 doctors.
Last 52 days I'm searching the net for any information related to STDs.,...
I started to think that the candom may be not working good during that relation with the sex seller (it was durix extra safety- self lubricant) and it may containing any holes or damage which I didn't see .....
I felt that I catched all the STDs.
As I said thousands of what if quastions ...
I thought that this woman could knows that she has HIV (which I don't know of course) and she maybe a member of torirest organization and wanted just to spreed HIV to me so I started to think that she might but bad candom for me ...
I was very disturbed and as I said thousnad of bad I deas came to my mind
The theird day I bought ciprofloxazin 500 and had it for 10 days twice daily
after 2 weeks I started to go for blood tests
- 2 weeks after the relation mad (HIV 1&2&P24 Ag) combo or duo test
- 4 weeks I repeated the above mentioned tets (HIV P24 COMBO) & made HIV by PCR and HBV DNA QUANTITATIVE by cobas amplicor (pcr)
- 6 weeks I made RPR, VDRL, HTPA AND HERBES SELECT TYPE 2
- 7 weeks I made HIV1&2 , HbSAg and HbC total
Thanks GOD all teste came back negative, ....... BUT .......
I had too many syptoms as follows:
- After the realation by around 6 days I had a very light nose pains and sore throut for 4 days
- My wife folloed me after 2 days the same syptoms but stronger (notice that I made sex with here one after that relation (was protected and with oral)
- After 2 weeks two I had very small (0.5 mm ) drak brown points Appeared at the bottom of my penis (when I visited the doctor he didn't saw it and told me its nothing and prescribed anti Fungal for week and they gone
- After 3 weeks a very small red bumps around my upper part of my legs from the outer sides and back side only starts to appear without any itching just a very light jabbing ... I visited the doctor he told me that the brown points no need to but any thing and for the neqwlly appeard pumbs he told my it form anixity and he prescribed vebramicin 100 3 time dauily for 20 days and fucecorte cream ....... now after 7 weeks its about to recover but steel have some of it.
- after 6 weeks from the realtion my wife had got another flu and the doctor said its viral infection and she is OK now.
- Now 7 weeks I didn't have any sex with my wife from the second day of that relation and I'm very worry to make........ (only the one I mentioned using candom the second day of the realtion)
-I mustebated twice and the last one was from one weeks under the shower without any lubricant and it took long time and after that I felt for tow days with a very very light burning sensation and many jabs and now nothing ... its OK
- During this period the urintal problems and no pumbs in my genital area (the doctor checked me three times aslo there were no fever (thanks GOD)
ofcourse alot of muscle pains for me around my nick from time to time I think its from my setting in front og the computer screen for mire than 7 hourse searching the net
Of course this is not all I have alot of what if and supose that !!!??? >>>>
My question to you:
1- Am I at risk of any STDs. from that prescribed realtion I made with the sex seller
2- If I Caught any STD from that realtion (it was only protected vaginal without any oral or even kisses) could I pass it to my wife the second day with the oral I made to here? (if any infection through this protected vaginal sex with the sex seller happened is it possible to spread inside my body and reaches my blod and producted in my slavia within 30 hourse)
the reason for my question is to know if my wife could be infected by (chalmedia, or genu ...) though the oral sex I mad to herthe second day as the vagunal intercorse was completly protected and I'm sure.
3- Are the blod test I made is reaible and should I retested again or the tests is enough and conclusive
4- Can I have sex again with my wife without protection or its better to wait further....?
5- What is your openion for the hall story and my fears?
Please I need your answeres
Thamks
If you did have anything, yes, you could have infected your wife, but you have tested negative for everything, right?
I get the anxiety, but you don't have anything, and need to move on from this. You really are ok. ;)
AJ
The oral sex was just from the sex seller and she didn't even touch my penis only as I wrote kiss and tounge touch to my balls cover and to my breast for seconds
I didn't tested fpr chlamedya and the other one I don't remeber which is goronohya (may be)
But I took medecine by dodctor which recover this (if it could happened)
And I want to tell you that I didn't make any sex with my wife last two months except the second day of that relation and my question in this concern was (if I took chlamedya for exapmle today from a vaginal relation only ... could it spread to my blod and reaches my slavia only in one day)
For the others I tested and I think I have to let it go .... Am I right
Thanks again
Really its not worth it ..... any body can loose his life just for seconds ......
I think that I got paranoia ....
Some time I imagine that I might infect my kids by any infection so I'm keeping wash my hands every 5 mins. and not to try touch my body or face