To much Sex

[AMB222]

My husband is a very sexual active person and I have a hard time keeping up with him. Lately I have been playing along and we have sex 2 to 3 times a day. After about 2 weeks of that I get sore internally and have a flakey discharge. After about a week of not having sexual intercourse I get better but I wonder if this can cause long term damage. Do any other women have this problem. Also, my husband has extreme diffulculty getting me to have a big O through intercourse. Does any women have any suggestions.

[slow_healer]

How about taking the pressure off your vagina? Try mutual masturbation, handjobs, blow jobs, etc. etc. etc. I agree in that the vagina needs a break.

As far as the big O goes, is your husband open to other methods (besides intercourse)? Many women get off far better and consistently using oral sex, toys, manual stimulation, etc.

[jml1986]

I agree with slow_healer. Sounds like your vagina might need a break. I would see if he would agree to other form of sexual satisfaction.

[dsteamn]

You may be upsetting the natural yeast production in your vagina.  Having too much sex will not cause long term damage, but it surely makes it uncomfortable if you are having discharge or abnormal sensations.  If you experience any type of itching, swelling, excess redness, burning or odor, you should see a doctor.  Otherwise, just talk to your husband and tell him not to wear it out all at one time.

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[alyssa5]

IF  YOU DONT WONT TO HAVE SEX THAN  DONT DO IT. IF HE LOVE,S YOU HE,LL RESPECT YOU

[Casmac]

Sex, good sex, is 90% mental. Your husband is obviously not taking the time to get between your ears with setting the mood.

Go find a book by Laura Corn entitled "101 Nights of Grrrrreat Sex" and get him to play along. It presents 101 scenarios for couples to light the fire in each other. There are 50 for him and 50 for you, and one for both. I'm not a book seller, just a big fan of the book.

Also, your husband should be taking his time to make sure your engine is rev'd up before he gets his in gear. It's obvious he finds you sexually attractive, so take charge and make him get you "warmed up" with some avid foreplay before allowing him to "plug in". Most men would love to do the "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" thing. But, you need to make HIM take the time to satisfy YOU. Teach him the wonders of oral sex. Tantalize him orally, and don't allow him to climax. You'll have him eating out of your hand......or crotch. Ha! Ha! Make him satisfy you before allowing him to climax. Make it a game.....a competition to see which one of you can make the other orgasm first. If you simply allow him to keep on with the "screw and spew" mentality, he will continue to ignore and disrespect your needs.

As a man, my greatest moments of achievment are felt when I am able to bring my lady to a mind-shattering orgasm. Only then will I embrace, and begin building the momentum to hopefully mutually satisfy the both of us. That's what "true love" is all about. Loving the other person, and putting their needs ahead of your own. You have shown that to your husband, and now it's time to demand he shows the same to you.

Good luck!