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I'm sorry to hear what all of you especially your husband are going through. I can think of several causes for these but should be verified with your physician.
The lack of oxygen may not be the primary culprit and the heart valve problem may not contribute much to these mood swings. As long as the blood pressure is normal, the brain will be perfused with oxygen rich blood. Regarding the low Oxygen saturation during the post-operative status, this can be due to several things like fluid in the lungs or hydration problems, but if just transient, should not have caused damage.
Though rather unlikely but plausible, Lupus has a manifestation called "Neuropsychiatric Lupus" which means that the lupus activity is affecting the brain. This can present with behavioral problems, maybe similar to what you are describing.
Depression can also contribute to these moodiness and untoward behaviors, and a psychologist consult may be warranted.
I suggest you discuss with your doctors regarding all of these possibilities, and hopefully come up with a convincing solution. Regards and God bless...
Thank you so much, Doctor. I do appreciate the time you took to write such an informative reply.
Best regards,
nancy ~