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ireneo Female, 55 years Portland - OR Member since Feb 2007
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Sorry that your daughter had to go through this. It is scary enough going and getting tests done without someone making stupid comments. I know what that is like as when I had my firstFirst progesterone mc10 First progesterone mc5 First-progesterone vgs 200 First-progesterone vgs 400 u/s the tech was saying all sorts of worrying things.
They are not doctors or radiologists or specialists, so they should just say nothing or at least be trained to be 'reassuring' even if they do spotBirthmarks - pigmented Liver spots Measles, koplik spots - close-up Mongolian blue spots something odd.
I am sure you are right about the uterus looking fat because she is due for her period.
We have a place in NZ (health and disability commissioner) where you can make complaints or report medical staff, and i'm sure you do in the States. The problem is nobody ever hardly complains. we just listen to whatever they say and then spend a month worrying!!!
I know everything will be fine for your daughter.....love and prayers to you both.
Shari4444 Female, 46 years Belmont - MI Member since Feb 2008
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, Apr 22, 2008 06:18PM
To: Irene
Dear Irene,
I'm sorry for everything your daughter had to endure today. I don't understand why the technicians feel the need to interpret the tests. I believe that it may even be unlawful for them to do such. I don't think they realize how we all hang on their every word for hope and reassurance. Then, to get the opposite, form them, is BEYOND wrong!!!! You may want to mention the technicians behaviorAutistic behavior Behavior - unusual or strange Bulimia Hyperactivity Suicide and suicidal behavior Temper tantrums to his/her superior. I know, we all hate to get someone "in trouble", but she could cause real damage if someone took her/his word for it and never went backBack pain - low Back strain treatment to the doctor (when it was cancerous) just because SHE/HE said everything looked okay! At the very least, they could preface their "take" on the images with,"of course I am NOT trained to read this, but.....". Anyway, I've gone on enough (I guess you can tell I've had an overly chatty tech before, myself). I'll be thinking about and remembering, in my prayers your daughter and you. Good luck.
ireneo Female, 55 years Portland - OR Member since Feb 2007
Mood: ireneo is doing OK, taking one day at a time Journal Entry: "This evening about 9:15 I got a call from..." [Read]
, Apr 22, 2008 07:05PM
Thank you all for understanding my rant. It's not even my body this time but my daughter's. Of course that's pretty close. Now she's waiting till May and I'm waiting with her. Seems like I've been through this before LOL. Thanks for the thoughts and prayers. I'm sure I'll be yakking about it again next month. Take care everyone.
Hi Irene,
Well, I agree. They should keep their mouthMouth sores Oral cancer shut. I honestly don't think they even think that there is a REAL person on that table. Of course you are worried for your daughter. What mother wouldn't be? I hope and pray that all looks better next month. She is so young and this must be so hard for her.
Sandymac Female, 69 years FL Member since Dec 2007
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, Apr 22, 2008 09:01PM
I've had the same type of thing happen to me and it's inexcusable. Mine was re: mammogram, Surgeon had even scheduled biopsyAdrenal gland biopsy Biopsy - biliary tract Biopsy - polyps Biopsy catheter Bladder biopsy Bone biopsy Bone lesion biopsy Bone marrow biopsy Breast biopsy Breast lump removal Bronchoscopy with transbronchial biopsy and they couldn't find anything! I was told to have another look see in 6 months..My Gyn was fully informed of all of this.
Then out of the blue the tech called and kept insisting I make an appt with my Gyn.. She had me doubting everyone !! I called the surgeon and he was just beside himself with the words "For God's sake, she's a TECHNICIAN.. she shouldn't even be talking to you".. All of this to say, I can certainly relate..
And it is your daughter.. I don't know how you could not be worried!! Some of these medical (?) people are so insensitive to say the least.. But, in any event, I'll surely be thinking of you and your daughter.. All my best wishes for better times,
Sandy
Jan214 Female Nashville - TN Member since Sep 2007
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, Apr 22, 2008 11:13PM
I am so sorry you have to go through this worry and fearFears and phobias and what your daughter had to endure is outrageous. Out techs here in Tn aren't allowed by law to tell us ANYTHING. They can't even make facialFacial paralysis Facial tics Facial trauma expressions of any kind that might be read one way or another. I don't even ask anymore cause I know they won't tell me anything and I know that is for the best.
You and yours will of course be in our prayers and Cory and I wish your daughter the best of luck for the outcome of these tests. Remember, those people are techs and altough they have seen a lot of stuff they are not radiologists who have seen a lot of stuff and know how to interpret it. Take care and keep strong.
Love,
Jan
ireneo Female, 55 years Portland - OR Member since Feb 2007
Mood: ireneo is doing OK, taking one day at a time Journal Entry: "This evening about 9:15 I got a call from..." [Read]
, Apr 23, 2008 10:35AM
I guess the tech was trying to make things interesting by explaining what was seen on the screen. Yeah, like anyone can understand all those gray streaks? I remember looking at the screen during my TVUS (hoping to distract myself from the probe) but it just looked like terrible TV reception.
I'll talk to her about the tech's comments and whether she wants to mention it to the doctor. But she's a pretty non-confrontational person. We'll get through this and it will probably turn out just fine (says me from Happyville).
Jan214 Female Nashville - TN Member since Sep 2007
Mood: Jan214 CA125 went to 192 since last chemo. It was 147 and that had come down from 149. Journal Entry: "Jack and Josie are the twins of my handso..." [Read]
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TrudieC Female, 46 years Ayr - ON Member since Apr 2008
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TrudieC Female, 46 years Ayr - ON Member since Apr 2008
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crecco Female, 47 years Olney - IL Member since Sep 2007
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Jan214 Female Nashville - TN Member since Sep 2007
Mood: Jan214 CA125 went to 192 since last chemo. It was 147 and that had come down from 149. Journal Entry: "Jack and Josie are the twins of my handso..." [Read]
I can relate to those techs that put the fear into you with their oh wonder what that is, I remember when that happened to me and I asked what do you think it is ?I was met with the reply, oh im not allowed to tell you !!. I wish they would use an ounce of intelligence to realise that people are often nervous and if like me hang on to every word thats said .
Hope everything works out ok for your daughter .
Angie
They are not doctors or radiologists or specialists, so they should just say nothing or at least be trained to be 'reassuring' even if they do spot something odd.
I am sure you are right about the uterus looking fat because she is due for her period.
We have a place in NZ (health and disability commissioner) where you can make complaints or report medical staff, and i'm sure you do in the States. The problem is nobody ever hardly complains. we just listen to whatever they say and then spend a month worrying!!!
I know everything will be fine for your daughter.....love and prayers to you both.
Peace....Kim
I'm sorry for everything your daughter had to endure today. I don't understand why the technicians feel the need to interpret the tests. I believe that it may even be unlawful for them to do such. I don't think they realize how we all hang on their every word for hope and reassurance. Then, to get the opposite, form them, is BEYOND wrong!!!! You may want to mention the technicians behavior to his/her superior. I know, we all hate to get someone "in trouble", but she could cause real damage if someone took her/his word for it and never went back to the doctor (when it was cancerous) just because SHE/HE said everything looked okay! At the very least, they could preface their "take" on the images with,"of course I am NOT trained to read this, but.....". Anyway, I've gone on enough (I guess you can tell I've had an overly chatty tech before, myself). I'll be thinking about and remembering, in my prayers your daughter and you. Good luck.
Hugs,
Shari
Well, I agree. They should keep their mouth shut. I honestly don't think they even think that there is a REAL person on that table. Of course you are worried for your daughter. What mother wouldn't be? I hope and pray that all looks better next month. She is so young and this must be so hard for her.
Take care and hugs,
Lori
Then out of the blue the tech called and kept insisting I make an appt with my Gyn.. She had me doubting everyone !! I called the surgeon and he was just beside himself with the words "For God's sake, she's a TECHNICIAN.. she shouldn't even be talking to you".. All of this to say, I can certainly relate..
And it is your daughter.. I don't know how you could not be worried!! Some of these medical (?) people are so insensitive to say the least.. But, in any event, I'll surely be thinking of you and your daughter.. All my best wishes for better times,
Sandy
You and yours will of course be in our prayers and Cory and I wish your daughter the best of luck for the outcome of these tests. Remember, those people are techs and altough they have seen a lot of stuff they are not radiologists who have seen a lot of stuff and know how to interpret it. Take care and keep strong.
Love,
Jan
I tend to be overly optimistic at times and make up excuses for things. Like her uterus is fat and irregular because her period was due. Not sure if that's even factual but it's what I run through my mind. As for the cyst, I know they deflate sometimes so I hang on to that. I've had practice with optimism because of my goofy heart. I just think - it's fine, it'll settle down soon, it always does. So I'm good at ignoring it.
I'll talk to her about the tech's comments and whether she wants to mention it to the doctor. But she's a pretty non-confrontational person. We'll get through this and it will probably turn out just fine (says me from Happyville).