Is it easy?

[MeowMix01]

It seems I am going to be posting in this forum a lot more often now =) but anyway, I was wondering how hard has it been for you ladies to get pregnant? I am hoping I am pregnant now (crossing fingers) but if I'm not I want to be prepared for whats coming to me. If I am boy it was hella easy but if Im not, what do I have in store for me to meet my goals?

[michelle148]

I M/C in November and have been trying ever since and yesterday i found out that i was pregnant so it took me 4-5 months to fall again. There are lots of things to bear in mind when trying to conceive like your health, partners health etc.. they can all contribute to how quickly you will conceive. Its best to try and relax and let it happen naturally. I started to chart and get into it so much that i was treating my partner as a baby making machine and not enjoying the bedroom activitys as i was just trying to get pregnant but we went on holiday beginning of April to Las Vegas for a week and i was totally relaxed and chilled out and we had a great time and low and behold i conceived whilst we were in Vegas and i truely beleive its becuase i was relaxed and chilled out and didnt pay attention to if i was ovulating or what my body was up to. Its so easy to get hooked into getting obsessed!

[MeowMix01]

Thanks so much! That is really what I wanted to know.  I have not put too much stress into this, only reason I thought I might be pregnant was b/c of the bit of blood I found on some tp after having sex, it wasnt a lot either (keep in mind I had my period 2.5 weeks ago so it cant be that) other than that I have been relaxed and hardly thinking about it. =) I really really hope that I am though! please wish me luck!

Oh and is it safe for me to take a pregnancy test 2-3 weeks before i'm supposed to get my period?

[alaysha]

Its always safe to take a pregnancy test anytime. As for showing positive they normally won't show until 2 weeks after conception so basically around the time your period is due.

[depressed748]

I had a m/c in Dec and still waiting to get pregnant. I am not doing all the charting thing just enjoying the pratice. I am trying to keep faith that it will happen soon.

[leighanne143]

you should wait to take the pregnancy test until your period is due or a day or 2 late.  I got pregnant very easily 2 times in 5 months but had miscarriages with both of them.  I actually just got the ok from the doctor to start trying again:)