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Climaxing
by eeddrr, Apr 28, 2008 12:56PM
I have a lot of trouble climaxing. I enjoy sex very much but have never had an orgasm with penetration, in fact I have never been able to have an orgasm "manually", but I can with use of a "massager". But that's it no other way...any clue? Or does anyone else have this problem? I have been lying to my husband for years telling him that i am having orgasm and starting to feel very bad for being dishonest I just don't want to hurt his feeling or make him think he is adequate, But I don't think he'd get the problem is me not him..........any clue
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by jml1986, Apr 28, 2008 04:00PM
Have you tried clitorial stimulation while you are having intercourse. Most women can not orgasm by penetration alone. You can also use the vibrator on the clitoris while you are having intercourse. Just figure out what works and go for it.
by Pyrate, Apr 29, 2008 08:44PM
Anal stimulation can be a help too. Try using the massager in your anus while having your husband penetrate. It can give a very exciting time for both of you. Clitoral stimulation during intercourse is also a good way to get an orgasm. You might try stimulating it first then see if him doing it while copulating helps. There is a position that will give both of you clear access to the clitoris and that is him on his knees at your vagina & pillows under your butt. Legs in the air & spread works too. It's quite fun and can be a turn on beyond what you might have tried before. It also tantilizes the eyes. Sex is at least 60% visual stimulation. If you watch, as well as he watch, you might both learn to reach climax together. Hope this helps. Shane
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