Without viewing the testing report it is hard for me to comment. Your description offers evidence that makes it difficult to understand how a conclusion about his being cognitively disabled could have been reached, but I would really have to read the testing results to comment with more authority.
He behaves very passively in the classroom, speaking only when spoke to and has difficulty following directions. He does not interact with other kids. My brother behaved in a very similar manner in the early grades of school. He is not cognitively disabled but has a mood disorder. We have talked about this to the school but we have been disregarded. There is no mention of the videotape that we gave to the school in the report. It seems as if the school has an air tight case so-to-speak that my son is mentally retarded. Though I can understand the school's analysis of him to some extent-based on his participation and response to the testing and based on his passivity and overall behavior in the classroom I have real doubts that he is intellectually disabled. In fact his teacher told me and my husband on 2 separate occasions justprior to the testing that he is "cognitively fine" and he might not qualify for any services but SLP services.
I would like to also mention that his is capable of coping patterns with colored pegs and sequence blocks tallest to shortest. He is able to make sets i.e. 5 red pegs. He is able to place a figurine "on" "in" "in front" "behind" and so forth. He shows reasoning skills in everyday life. When I told him he could not put a dolls clothes in the dryer, he took the clothing outside and hung it on a tree to dry, yesterday without any prompt from me. Anyhow, what is your opinion in light of this information and what do you recommend?