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Irritation?? Can someone please reply to my question?

by Mili1972, May 02, 2008 12:07AM
I tested for HIV at 5 weeks after having sex (with a condom) with this guy and the result is NEGATIVE...should I test again? PLEASE read the following...

I had sex with a guy, I played bottom...we used a condom and water based lube. Then I asked him to use another condom and some silicone based lube that I always like to use. This because I don't like water based lubes. When we were done, he pulled out with the condom on, never came off his penis. So I had NO contact with his sperm.

About 10 minutes later I could feel some anal irritation, like a burning sensation. I have felt that irritation before, do you have any idea if some lubricants/condoms cause irritation? Or does it make any sense to you?

Should I test again?
Member Comments (7)

by LIZZIE LOU, May 02, 2008 06:06AM
why did you test in the first place?  you had protected sex!

no further testing needed.

sorry...cant help you with the irritated anus.

by Mili1972, May 02, 2008 09:47AM
To: LIZZIE LOU
Thank you friend for your soothing words...just sort of nervous about being irritated...it has happened before with water based lubes or maybe it was the condom, that is what puzzled me...

by worried826, May 02, 2008 10:05AM
Um yeah condoms can cause irritation thats common knowledge. You had no risk you used a rubber.

by Mili1972, May 02, 2008 10:35AM
To: LIZZIE LOU
I have been worried that the condom having failed somehow and irritating me...

by LIZZIE LOU, May 02, 2008 10:39AM
i think anxiety is playing with your head.  i'm sure "if" the condom broke...the guy would have said something.

if testing is the only thing that will relieve your stress...then by all means do so.  test 3 months post exposure.

we were not there...so there is no way that "we" can tell you if the condom ruptured or not.  you might want to start checking this in the future so that all the "what ifs" do not have to be answered.

i feel sure that the irritation was caused by friction and the condom.

by Mili1972, May 02, 2008 10:41AM
To: worried826
Thanks man...I appreciate your comment...I am going to pray right now for you to be less anxious...praying helps so much...I will also pray for you to try some praying...in my case I am stepping off of this crazy and just overall WRONG life...I still become a bit anxious at points, but It stops and goes away when I pray to JesusChrist and the wonderful thing is that it happens almost instantaneously!

I can't take this life anymore, and if there is something I can do to stop being like this I will...and that is just STOP DOING WHAT PUTS ME AT RISK...PERIOD

by Mili1972, May 02, 2008 10:45AM
To: LIZZIE LOU
Yeah, Im sure it didn't break cause I saw it and it was still on and looked normal...if that word can be used...I did notice and there was nothing weird about it and when it came off, there were no leaks...I am sure it is just my head playing with me...Im still checking myself AGAIN...at 3 months...I want to thank you for you kind words...please don't stop keeping in touch...
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