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If you have been recently exposed to HPV, it might not show up on an HPV test yet, so I can see why they wouldn't do any testing.
I think you both just need to breathe and wait and see what the other doc says. Have your bf insist on a biopsy.
Why would this cause you to lose your bf? HPV is so common - about 80% of people will have it in their lifetimes - and if you don't get it now, from him, you might from someone else.
If he does have HPV, then you have already been exposed. Whether you develop symptoms or not - no one can know now.
Hang in there,
AJ