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Oh no,Am I Pregnant

by ambii, May 04, 2008 08:54AM
Ok, on April 20th me and my boyfriend decided to have sex after a year and some months relationship being together. I lost my virginty that night but he was experienced, it was unprotected sex with precum, he pulled out about 20 seconds before he really "exploded"(we did not continue the act,after that happen) and I asked him did he ejaculate anytime before we started intercourse and he said yes, yesterday but had urinated right after....and with all that,my period had started on April 1st(I was also prescribed birth control because of really bad cramps that same day) and I have a regular 28 days cycle,I used bc for like a week and then stop(couldn't keep up with it) once I had stop the next day I started bleeding again like a period and it ended April 11th and that's when the sex thing come up on April 20th,when April 21st hit I started back on bc and continued for a week and then stopped again, and now I'm here today so see if I'm pregnant or not...are my chances that bad if being pregnant????
Member Comments (3)

by crabby70, May 04, 2008 09:09AM
go to the doctor....this forum is not for teen pregnancies......there is a pregnancy forum....best of luck

by Kim1989, May 04, 2008 01:04PM
crabbys right

u can get pregnant from pre *** and no matter how quick he pulled out you can still get pregnant. you got your period so good. but your prob bleeding because you started your pills then stopped. it will throw your body off, and either cause you to bleed a lot or your period goes mia for a bit. if you think your pregnant TAKE A TEST

by valbeth, May 06, 2008 11:03AM
First of all I commend you for seeking advice.  It's not easy being a teenager and it sounds like you realize that you made a mistake by having unprotected with your boyfriend.  PLEASE take my advice.  You don't need to go through the drama every month wondering if you are pregnant.  Don't have unprotected sex again.  It's not worth it!!  At the very least use a condom.  You can purchase these at any drug store.  If your too embarassed to buy them you can usually find them in the restrooms at convenience stores.  This will also protect you from STD's.  Don't wait for your boyfriend to buy them-you need to PROTECT yourself.  Remember these are  NOT 100% effective.  Condoms (rubbers) can break or leak causing pregnancy.  Don't let your boyfriend tell you that he doesn't want to use one because he doesn't get the same feeling when using one.  If he says this he is just being selfish!! Tell him if he really loved you he would use one.  It doesn't sound like you are pregnant.  Try taking a home pregnancy test.
These are about 97% effective.  Pregnancy tests detect HCG hormone a hormone produced by the body when you are pregnant.  When you first get pregnant these levels are very low.  The start to build up and increase as your body gets ready to carry a baby.  This is why you should take several pregnancy tests if the first one comes back negative.  Some tests detect very low levels of HCG hormone and others require higher levels to be positive.  It is best to perform a urine test in the morning before you eat or drink.  Please try to educate yourself about the myths of pregnancy.  You can become pregnant from pre ejaculation.  Men will ejaculate some inside you without knowing it.  They call this preejaculation.  You definitely can become pregnant from this.  You can also become pregnant by having sex when you have your period.  Go to pregnancy-info.net and look up myths about teen pregnancy.  If you can't talk to your parents about birth control try going to your school nurse.  She will not call your parents.  You can also go to planned parenthood.  They can get you birthcontrol if you are planning on having sex again.  Don't ruin your fun, exciting high school years by having an unplanned pregnancy.  Go to football games, play sports, go to prom, hang with your friends and have fun!!  Continue to seek out advise when you need help.  I am thinking about you and I hope you will consider some of my suggestions.  :)) ENJOY YOUR TEEN YEARS THEY PASS VERY QUICKLY!!
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