i did a big mistake!!!!

[pr119]

i had sex outside my marriage and that guy works wit my husband.....that guy is saying that i gave him chlamydia because his girlfriend dont have it and he said that i was the only one he had sex wit!!!! my husband CANNOT find out about my stupidness dat i did until im ready to tell him...........but in my opinion i dont have chlamydia at all!!!! i have no signs that i have it and its been 9 weeks since the intercourse. i had my period normal and i have no discomfort  whatsoever.......in other news the guy is having all the signs and getting treated!!!!! right now i might be pregnant by my husband and im scared that i have it but my husband dont want to hear that i have that so i dont noe wat to do??? i want to test but my husband cant find out!!!!!! is there a possibility that i have chlamydia???? if do have it shouldnt the sings show up already???? please help! any opinions will help thanks

[auntiejessi]

Yes, if your other partner had a positive test, then you might have it.

You should go to an std clinic or Planned Parenthood and test and find out.  If you are negative, your husband doesn't need to know.

AJ

[pr119]

is there a big possibility that i might not have it for the fact dats been 2 months already and no signs???? why is it that i dont have any sings??? im just curious..... i never had anything like dat........

[auntiejessi]

I can't tell you the chances, because I don't know when he was tested, when he got symptoms, etc.

If he does have it, chances you do are really good.

You really should just get tested.  Most women won't have symptoms with chlamydia, but if you did, you might have a discharge, cramping, itching, odor, or any combination of those, or none of those.

AJ

[pr119]

do you get nose bleeds with chlamydia??? because lately for the past 3 days i have nose bleeds and a headache that persist for hours!!!!!

[auntiejessi]

No, you wouldn't.

You definitely need to see a doctor for that.

AJ

[pr119]

thank you for everything auntiejessi you are a really big help and ill let you noe everything the doctor tells me and an update about my problem thank you again .....

[pr119]

hey i turned out negative for everything and 12 weeks pregnant!!! thank god everything is back to normal ...even with my husband!!! no more doubts and no more stupid mistakes!!!
and people remember..."you dont know what you have until you lose it" understand???

[auntiejessi]

Congrats and good luck!