Masterbation - Am I normal??

[elliestar]

I'm a 17year old girl and am worried that the way I masterbate is abnormal.

When I was about 13 yrs old, I came across my old baby bouncer (the type that hangs from door frames and lets babies boing up and down). Out of curiosity I hung the thing up and cut a long story short ended up sitting in it and having the most amazing organsm.

It was so good that I ended up making some modifications to the bouncer (i.e. a bigger harness) and used it more and more to enjoy myself.

I'm now 17 and still use the baby bouncer to orgasm from time to time. I don't know why I have such great orgasms when using it, but I can't match the feeling I get bouncing up and down in the thing!

The problem is the bouncer is obviously not designed to hold the weight of a 17year old girl and I've noticed that some parts look like they might not last much longer.

I am considering buying a new baby bouncer and carrying on, but I know this is not a normal way to orgasm and think I would like to stop, but only if I can recreate the feeling in another way.

I haven't discussed this with any of my friends as I'm worried they will just think it is plain weird. I'd be interested to hear if anyone has had any similar experiences and offer any advice please...or am I just abnormal?

Thanx,
Ellie x

[mjjlove]

well i dont think your abnormal....you just have your ways of doing things...
i think that you get that feeling because when you are in the air and you
drop you get a since of tinglyness and butterflies all the way up your back.
i get the same way if im at the fair and i go on one of those things that take
you high in the air and drop you.....so i dont think your weird or normal..but
you might wanna find something else...(haha that was weird) or just stop...

idk what else for you to "use" lol....but thats my answer!

hope it helped!

[elliestar]

Thanks for the reply.
Not sure if you're sayin you think its weird or not..ha, but what you say about the up and down motion makes sense - I get the most amazing tingling all the way up my body

Just worried about either getting caught by my mum or the thing breaking, as the instructions say its only meant to hold 25lbs(..oops!) and it is definitely showing the strain now I'm a bit older and heavier.

But cant think of anything I could use instead either. I do get guilty feelings after I use it sometimes and although I think I want to stop, not sure I'll be able to.

I have kept it a secret for so long and have really wanted to talk about it with friends...so it does make me feel better that I can discuss my problem here.

Ellie.

[Lynsey1]

why do you not just buy a dildoo as your mum is less likely goin to find tht than a baby boncer, the only problem is i prefer not to push the dildoo inside of me i like my bf to do tht

x

[elliestar]

I do have a dildo as well and although I use it when its not convenient to use the bouncer, it just doesnt give me the same feelings.

Anyway..my old bouncer broke a few weeks ago and I decided to buy a new one...haven't had a chance to put it to the test yet though!

When it broke I thought that I would have to stop masturbating in this way, but in the end I couldnt face not having one. So I guess I'm stuck being weird!

[Reflecks]

Well...it is weird. You might want to kinda ween yourself away from it. I really can't think of any way you could replicate the feeling of a baby bouncer. It's fine aslong as no-one finds out of course, but if a boyfriend found your baby bouncer, he'd be confused for sure. Probably moreso when you explained why you have it.

Maybe you should buy a really high quality vibe or something...

[elliestar]

I tried to ween myself away from it when it broke, but in the end I was missing it too much. Think it would need a lot of will power to stop using it.Even though I guess it is a bit weird.

I've found it quite easy to keep it a secret so far as it just lived in a box in the spareroom when I wasnt using it. But you're right it would be difficult to explain if anyone found it, or worse still I was caught while using it!

I got to use my new one last night and it seemed quite strong...still not sure about the door frame and walls though. Also the orgasms seemed much stronger as I hadnt masturbated in this way for a few weeks. Its just made me want to use it all the more!

[arin]

I have another way to masturbate.  When I'm in the tub I put my vagina under the facet and let the water run on top of it.  I can't masturbate normally, this is the only thing that is good anymore.  You should think of it this way, some people have strange fetishes like getting tied up, or wearing diapers and using the bathroom in public.  Yours isn't weird compared to that.

[ready2help]

Masturbation is normal - no reason for the guilt! However, I see other issues at hand here. If you "program" yourself to have an orgasm in this way and this way only, you may be disappointed when you bring in a partner (unless you plan to use the bouncer with the partner - which is fine but you may not want to share this right away!).

I would suggest trying some new things - experimenting might be fun, too! A vibe is a great idea - the Magic Wand is popular - there is a cool site where you can learn a lot - it is a shop called good vibrations (use one word, no spaces) and then add the ******* after it. They sell awesome QUALITY items (no crappy novelty stuff!) and they have lots of good info there as well.

goodvibrations.com

g o o d v i b r a t i o n s . c o m

(I retyped it several ways cause this forum sometimes won't allow a web address!)

It is just a practical matter to be able to orgasm in a few different ways - variety is the spice of life, right???  LOL!

Have fun - no guilt. Keep things light. You're supposed to enjoy your body, not stress over it.

Stay safe!

[Jimmy223]

umm....i dunno, maybe try one of those sit 'n bounce? lol you know, those big bouncy balls with handles on them and you sit and it grab the handle and bounce around.