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Confusing emotions
by DizzyDolly, May 06, 2008 05:53PM
Hi.
I've only been with my boyfriend for a couple of months but I already feel bored. The thing is because i'm so busy, I don't get to see him much, but I still feel bored. This isn't the first time this sort of thing has happened. It's weird that it seems the less I see of someone, I just seem to completely turn off them. It seems so sudden that i go from head over heels to to feeling like I just want to shake them off completely and find everything about them irritating. Is there something wrong with me? My boyfriend isn't really a boring person (although lately, he never seems to have anything to talk about and i'm always the one doing all the talking. I try to get him to talk about himself and ask him questions, but he never says much and if i don't say anything, there's just silence which I find akward). Could there be a reason why he has gone from being chatty to being really quiet?
I don't know what to do, but im just don't feel like seeing him, yet I don't want to break up with him if there is some kind of issue with me that needs to be resolved. I feel that even if I did break up with him and found someone else, this would just happen with them.
I've only been with my boyfriend for a couple of months but I already feel bored. The thing is because i'm so busy, I don't get to see him much, but I still feel bored. This isn't the first time this sort of thing has happened. It's weird that it seems the less I see of someone, I just seem to completely turn off them. It seems so sudden that i go from head over heels to to feeling like I just want to shake them off completely and find everything about them irritating. Is there something wrong with me? My boyfriend isn't really a boring person (although lately, he never seems to have anything to talk about and i'm always the one doing all the talking. I try to get him to talk about himself and ask him questions, but he never says much and if i don't say anything, there's just silence which I find akward). Could there be a reason why he has gone from being chatty to being really quiet?
I don't know what to do, but im just don't feel like seeing him, yet I don't want to break up with him if there is some kind of issue with me that needs to be resolved. I feel that even if I did break up with him and found someone else, this would just happen with them.
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Is there anyone else that's experienced this sorta thing? I'm interested to hear more and if anyone can offer any advice on dealing with this. Is this something common, or is there something wrong with me?
Thanks.