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Ultrasound yesterday

by crk05, May 06, 2008 07:17PM
So I have had 3 ultrasounds and so far they are consistent with my period and what have you. I am wondering how accuract they truely are. I am very scared and shameful to mention this but for almost 19 months I have been holding this in and havent told anyone, I am driving my mind crazy and I have noticed a huge mood change lately. I will give you guys the story and let me know what you think.

Back in October my boyfriend and I broke up because he wasn't working or going to school and he is on probation and he wasn't doing things right. He was making our life a living hell and so very,very stressful. I didn't think I could be with him and wasn't willing to sacrafice my future to be with him so I decided to call it quits and do my own thing. So I moved out.  Well I ended doing a fling with someone i knew til about the middle of December, but during this time we talked off and on and my guy ended getting a job doing better in school and making his life a better situation for his future. Well after much consideration I knew that we needed to try it as long as we were both willing to do the very best that we can for our future.

Well here is where I am so very, very stupid and disappointed in myself.  We got back together around the 22nd of December. I called it quits with the other guy by the 18th, I knew that I could not do that. I didn't want that. I went out of town from the 23rd of december to the first of January. During that time I had done nothing because I feel that as long as you are in a relationship you are in that relationship. I had my period on the 26th or 27th of December. At the end of January I missed my period.

I have had 3 ultrasounds, I had one on at 9 weeks and 5 days, I had one at exactly 11 weeks and then I had one yesterday I am 18 weeks and 6 days today. I am having a boy!!  I am due on October 1,2008. My Dr. told me I had gotten pregnant around the 9th or 10th of January. If this is the case I have nothing to worry about but if I got pregnant on or before the 18th of December then I would have a HUGE PROBLEM.

I am so scared and not been able to talk with anyone about this. I don't know what to do. Are these things correct?? I don't have the nerve to tell my boyfriend. I know I would tear his heart apart. I can't do that to him but if I am wrong God help me. PLEASE HELP!!!!
Member Comments (4)

by crk05, May 07, 2008 09:04AM
So anyone got anything for me

by whitlack, May 07, 2008 04:35PM
If you are due  october 1st you should have concieved around the middle of January so you shouldn't have anything to worry about.  r u worried about who is the father??

by crk05, May 07, 2008 11:58PM
Yea, only because we broke up for like two and half months and didnt get back together til Dec 22nd. During that time I did something very very stupid and i regret it so so much. It would kill me if it wasn't his.I think I cry about this everyday and I have sleepless nights from it. It is stressing me out so much and I dont know what to do. It is so frusterating and hard but I did it to myself. I am super disappointed in myseld.

I only worry if I got pregnant in the middle of December or before. I would never ever cheat but I feel as though I did even though we were broken up.I just want to scream.

by ChrisHealy, May 08, 2008 06:25PM
If your doctor has calculated your conception date to be after Dec. 18th, I'd stop torturing myslef.  Move on.  I don't think it's possible to be your old boyfriend's baby if you got your period after you stopped seeing him.  I wouldn't say anything.  Just put it behind you and forgive yourself.  You didn't do anything wrong.
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