16 and in love

[shynesss]

okay so the deal is when i was 14 this guy so fyne i wud melt over him i just moved nd was new to the school. i met him one month after nd it was liek love at first siht we were atracted to each other.. 2 weeks later we started talkin i found out he realy likes me nd was tellin everyoen dat he did makin em feel super special so a week after dat we started dating nd broke up liek 3 times in less than a month  the reasons we fought were because of me nd my jelous ways..i was really jelous cuz he was fyne nd had a lot of lady friends...the final break up we did not get back togetehr i put up the face that i didnt care nd he shud **** off attitude buh deep  inside i was cryin ..2 yrs later now 16 everytime i see him i just wish thins were the same again

[treazzure007]

You are still very young.  You only dated him for a month!  Come on now.  I do remember when relationships and friendships felt so important and crucial in highschool though.  I kept crushes on all of my highschool boyfriends all the way through graduation.  You'll get over it.

[jo929]

you are young now, and i know first love hurts, but you are just 16, and you will be dating many guys,, and first look to your education, and date, also have fun, but dont get to serious until your education is complets, as then there will be the man out there will be just for you. I raised 3 daughters, and they look back with fond memories to when they were young, but that is all it is to them fond memories   move foeward     luck   jo

[someoneinvabch]

just because you are young doesn't mean you can't love or be in love.
if you feel that guy is right for you then try talking to him again. alot of things can change in two years. maybe he has matured enough to commit to one girl, or you dont have over-jealous tendencies anymore and maybe you guys could work out. but you'll never know,i guess, if you keeping looking back and wishing about it

[kathryn80]

I totally remember my first love and I felt like I would never get over him... you will, I promise.  You will eventually have another love and perhaps another after that.  That's the beauty of love, life and youth.  If you feel like trying to talk to him, go for it.  But don't settle because you are lonely or something.  

[shynesss]

the thin is i did love again he was so perfect for me nd i broek up wid  him cuz i cudnt stop thinkin botu my first love nd deep down inside i knew the guy i broke up with deserves better dats y i did it now i jusss feel like i am a mess up with the area of dating nd now i am scared to even et too close to any guy for beign scared of dem liking me nd me turnin them down...

[shynesss]

nd the thin about it is thta i am very smart i am on honour roll buh as smart as i am i cant seem to help myself in this area it makes me feelso sad and powerless