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problems with sex, advice needed for shy nieve 26 year old
by Page_pool, May 09, 2008 04:15AM
i'm 26 years old, and i'm still a virgin i guess, my boyfreind and i have been going out for 17 months now and last month we tried sex for the first time, he's a great guy really pacient doesnt want to push me, but when we tired it was incredibally painfull and i had to stop him i bled a lot, so much so i had to wear a towl for nearly a week after and i was very sore, i went to the doctors and saw the nurse who told me i had 2 tears, one either side, i was frieghtedned for days after and he has been incredibally supportive, but i worry that i will never be able to have sex with him, he is very well endowd and i seem to be very small which i why i tore, he's not putting any pressure on me or anything quite the opersit, i don't want him to regret being with me 3 or 4 years down the line if it turns out we can never have sex.. is is possible we will never be able to make love?
i need nelp
i need nelp
Member Comments (2)
by slow_healer, May 09, 2008 12:16PM
It doesn't matter if you're "small" - your vagina is capable of stretching to accommodate just about any size penis. I would recommend a lot more foreplay and lubricant. Even try just working on how to arouse you (so that your vagina lubricates and relaxes - if it's tense and dry, you will tear again). Try him penetrating with his fingers first and experiment without the pressure of sex. Find what techniques are comfortable for you - the key is you being aroused prior to intercourse. Good luck!
by treazzure007, May 10, 2008 10:56PM
I agree with the above post and wanted to add that it takes time for it to get right and feel comforatable. It may take many many more times. Patience is key
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