Unprotected Oral and Breast Milk

[Overlystressed]

Hope someone can help me as i am stressing out.

4/4/08 received unprotected oral from bar girl for couple minutes.
4/10/08 went to Vegas strip club and sucked breast and fingered vagina

I am stressing out due to both above.  What are the chances for HIV or STD's.  On 4/21/08 starting experiencing body aches, sore throat, thick mucus in thoart, stiff neck, headaches, and feeling hot like i have a fever.  I took Azithromycin on 4/26/08 for 3 day pack.  But as of today still have scratchy throat, some mucus, stiff neck, etc.  I am stressing out big time.  

Both the bar girl and i were drunk but i could have easily had unprotected sex with her.  Makes me wonder if she gets drunk all the time and has sex with other customers.  She says she is clean but hard to believe after what i could have done.

Vegas stripper said she gave birth about 8 weeks ago from 4/10/08 and stopped breast feeding after 3 weeks from birth.  So i would assume she was still producing milk.  In Vegas my lips get dry and crack so im concerned if she was infected it would enter the cracks of my lips.  Plus my throat was already dry.  I had blood from my nose when i blew it.  

I am freaking out.  

Teak and others please respond and give me your honest opinion. I guess i will need to get tested but waiting the 12 weeks is a long time.  Plus dont want to give my wife something.

Thanks

[Teak]

It's possible to contract Stds form oral sex. Contracting HIV, no chance. You didn't have a risk from breast milk.

[Overlystressed]

Thanks for the quick response.  Getting sick 1-2 weeks after the stupid things i did make me worry they are symptoms of HIV.  Hope i can get over this.  Would you recommend me testing for STD's based on one time unprotected oral sex?  Would the Azithromycin have helped any if i did have a STD?

[lookin4answers80]

While I disagree with Teak's comment that there is no way to catch HIV from oral sex, in your particular situation, I agree that the risk was virtually non-existent. Unless you were giving oral sex to a male, letting him ejaculate in your mouth, and had cuts and sores in your mouth, you are fine. The kind of oral sex you describe - allowing a woman to give you oral - carries no documented risk.

Breast milk does carry HIV, but I don't know if it's in enough quantities to infect anyone. And you'd probably have to drink a lot of it for it to have any effect. But I don't know nearly as much about that mode of transmission.

Relax, you have nothing at all to worry about. Take a text and 6 and again at 12 weeks if you want peace of mind.

[Overlystressed]

Thanks for the response.  I guess my stress level will stay the same until getting tested at 12 weeks.  But i guess i deserve the stress.  

Stipper told me she runs one of those VIP services so i assume she might have been a prostitute before.  When she was giving me a lap dance she squeezed her breast toward my mouth or face.  Maybe she thought it was sexy or something but now im even more stresses as she was could have squeezed out milk, pus, blood, who knows.  She also told me she was clean but in that profession they would have to lie.  If she told the truth eventually rumors would go around regarding strippers in that club being infected.

Hopefully i dont go insane stressing over this.

[Overlystressed]

Does anyone know of any documented cases of an adult being HIV infected from sucking a girls breast with infected milk, blood, etc.???

[Teak]

No, because it doesn't happen to adults. Why? Because an adult has a good functioning immune system and an adult would not ingest as much breast milk as an infant that nurses for months.

[Teak]

Receptive oral sex is not a low risk. It's NO risk what so ever.

[Overlystressed]

Regarding the breast milk, it doesnt matter if i had dry lips that were cracking and sore?  Or a dry irritated throat?  

Right now my anxiety is killing me due to my 3-4 week cold.  Never had a cold this long after taking Azithromycin.  

Thanks again for your quick response and reducing my stress.

[Overlystressed]

Can others please give me their opinion on my dumb mistake above (Receiving unprotected oral and sucking breast with milk present).  I still have a cold which includes thick yellow mucus (mostly in the morning), irritated throat, swollen lump in mouth on left top side below last tooth (no open sore but a lump under skin that was sore), that is going on week 4 now.  I went to the doctor last week and he gave me Alegra D.  Its been about 3 days with no change.  Never had a cold last this long before.

Now yesterday to present i had diarrhea 7 times in a 16 hour period (I feel like i have to go now too but holding it since it would be 8).  Also when i sleep i get up a few times feeling sweating around the neck area (sleep