Anal Sex

[esonique]

Hi: I am female. Recently I have started to be sexually active and in the last 2 months, had 3 sexual intercourses. I have noticed that anal sex was demanded everytime and I am unaable to do anal sex because it really pains. My anus is really small and I also suffer from constipation because of that.

Can you please help how to have anal sex if the anus is small?

[zoolander26]

definitely have lots of lubes, preferably water based and start with small things..like your guy's fingers. don't rush into big things in there.

as time goes, your anus will get used to it.

always always use condom too

[slow_healer]

The anus should be really small, so that nothing is leaking out. A loose anus is a lot worse to deal with than a small one.

Re-think the kind of men you are sleeping with. A guy who is there for just one night probably isn't too concerned with how you feel the next day. If you want to try anal, do it with someone who genuinely cares whether or not it's comfortable for you. Don't ever do something that hurts and could potentially leave serious damage just because some one-nighter wants it. It's not worth the pain and discomfort that you and you alone will end up dealing with. My advice? Wait for a committed partner who will be patient in doing it right.

[alienshadow]

also be sure whoever your having anal sex with or vaginal sex that you make him wear a condom there is a lot of stds out there including hiv dont risk your health over 10 mins of pleasure or pain

[Jazmineca]

If you're uncomfortable with it, don't do it.  

[mr.lucky66]

the anus wasn't ment for all this is has one main purpose, EXIT ONLY!