why guys act the way they do plz guys answer

[shynesss]

i really have been wondering okay so i am in highschool and all the guys i have dated all want to have sex nd wen i say that im not ready then i duno they look so diaponting buh okay what i really really want to kno is why guys expect sex in a relationship so bad nd y they cant have a relationship based not on sex but the emotonal attraction can sum1 plz explain it to me

[mayflowers]

What the heck are you talking about?  Our school system is failing the young.  

[Jaybay]

Guys expect sex at an early age because many of the girls are giving it to them.  Stick to your guns girl.  You are in the right.

[RockRose]

Maybe they can't understand what you're saying?  

I agree with Mayflowers,  if you want adults perspective,  write in English.  

[txsilver]

Most guys are going to ask for sex and be disappointed if they do not get it.  The guy who really cares about you will be willing to wait and it is worth waiting for him.

[treazzure007]

You will have to start looking at the males as males.  Its not a highschool guy thing, it's a man thing.  Men, young and old do appreciate girls/ladies with wonderful personalities and smarts and that take care of/value themselves.  Its just that they also enjoy sex a whole lot and put that first.  The weirdest thing of all is that they will usually have tons of sex with tons of girlfriends/girls and then, when they are older and more mature and ready for marriage, they want the girl that's not like they were or the other girls were at all.  Youre doing the right thing to hold out.  They are not worth the trouble of pleasing.

[craigat08]

A real guy wouldnt be trying to jump in your bed, A real guy would wait till you say your ready or make the 1st move. Yes he will and should let you know that hes ready to take your relationship futher but he should also be willing to wait and stand by you if your not ready to take that step. Guys your age are still inmature just give it time dont rush things

[ComputerGeek]

What Treazzure said is often so true - "The weirdest thing of all is that they will usually have tons of sex with tons of girlfriends/girls and then, when they are older and more mature and ready for marriage, they want the girl that's not like they were."

So you just have to make your mind up - do you want a relationship with a guy that values your body over your mind?  Do you want to save yourself for marriage?  If so, then just say NO to these guys.

[shynesss]

hwyy treazzure u are so righttt