confused!!!

[tanisha716]

can someone please help me understand something.

okay my ex fiancee' came over here last monday night and we went to his house and we made love. then while i'm sleeping he's rubbing on me. then all of a sudden he's on top of me making love to me again. okay when we were together we were trying to have a baby. so now that were not together i think he's still trying to have a baby with me. he's still cumming inside of me like he was when we were together. then i just found out that he's back dating his ex and he cheated on her with me. can anyone tell me why is he still cumming inside of me if he don't want to be with anymore? he explained to me after we made love the first time that he know what he's doing and that he know a baby can come from all of this. but i don't understand why he's still wanting to have sex with me and still want to *** inside of me. please help me understand what's really going on with this whole situation.

[RockRose]

Tanisha,  do you have a mother,  grandmothers or aunts you trust?  My favorite aunt once told me don't believe anything a guy with an erection tells you.

Guys want to have sex.  That's what he was doing - having sex, and for some reason you were giving it away for free.

Next time you have sex,  make sure it's with a guy who is giddy in love with you.  Otherwise,  you're just giving it to some guy who just wants sex.

[txsilver]

Many men want unprotected sex because they think it feels better.  This guy is obviously not concerned about who he is with or what he may be passing around as a result of the unprotected sex.  My suggestion is to get on the pill and not allow anyone to have unprotected sex with you unless you are married or in a relationship with the same commitment level.

[treazzure007]

Girl you better start using protection.  Even if it takes you another few decades to wise up about men, use protection always.

[jo929]

You do not sound very mature,most men will take sex any, time that it is free,, also why would you want to have a baby out of wedlock, and try to raise it, that costs alot of money, and it is hard to raise a child alone, also if i were you,I would not take the left overs so to speak,. if he can not be true to you why would you want him? The next time he comes around tell him to get lost, get your self esteem back, never have unprotected sex, some men dont care what they may pass on., and you really need to think about this one of these days you may meet Mr Right,.and you do not want a reputation as easy, to follow you    good luck  jo

[teko]

Do you have a death wish or do you think that something like that cannot happen to you? In answer to your question, he is doing it because he can. Because you are allowing it and he is a no good self centered s.o.b. I hope that is blunt enough for you. He does not care 1 iota about you. He is running around with an erection and points it in any door that is open. Get it! Get some birth control and some common sense. I would also advise you to get tested for stds, particularly hiv. Dying of AIDS is not sexy. Quit putting yourself at risk girl!

[green eyed lady]

Are you really 27?

[tanisha716]

thank you ladies!! i left him alone. if it's meant to be then it will be.