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I started chewing tobacco when I was in 5th grade and quit when I was in Egypt while in the military. I've never done illegal drugs, but did a lot of drinking when younger.
I'm just curious, and thank you for your feedback.
It is my sincere belief that it is absolutely a gateway to bigger things, this opinion has been my own experience.
Kathy Jo
I tell kids that in 20 years, meth could be a gateway drug; I hope not. I'm sure there will always be an excuse for using drugs, but I think we need to continue to help these kids stay away from these substances to give them a better chance at success.
I'm very sorry to hear about your brother . . .
Of course, like Kathyjo said, a LOT of teens start smoking because of peer pressure, but I would make a bet that the teen that started smoking for that reason was fairly unhappy to begin with. But, then again, I realize not every stressed out teen starts smoking. My 19yr old niece has never smoked and she has grown up under a tremendous amount of stress in the home.
I better go get some coffee....
Everyone is different and everyone has a different experience but whether I'd ever smoked or not it wouldn't have made a difference to my doing other stupid things. I can say the same for the group of kids I hung out with back then. We just did what we did cuz we were kids and kids can be dumb like that.
Kids don't want to be preached to; they get enough of that already. So how can we, as a community, affect these kids. Do you think real-life examples will help?
Just curious.
Canuckchick hit the nail on the head when she stated that kids believe they are invincible........half the things I did as a kid were so stupid and I cringe when I think about it : )
My daughter doesn't seem to be interested in the party atmosphere yet, but she will be going away to college.. Hopefully I have given her the tools to make good/right choices.
I believe strongly in learning through others mistakes. It worked for me.....kept me in line, but neither of my brothers seem to appreciate their older sister (me) relating horror stories that I had lived through....friends over-dosing and some dying.
What helped me quit smoking tobacco was the incessant commercials being shown on t.v. about the many things that could and will happen to a smoker. Very graphic and relentless! NYC is really coming out strong against smoking & smokers. They offer free gum or patches, whatever way you chose, as long as you chose to : )
I was so stressed by the man with the hole in his throat, the woman who lost fingers, the man that lost his leg, the lungs of a cadaver and the children who lost their parent to cancer.
Maybe it worked on me because I am older, but it worked and I am grateful : )
I feel your concern for their welfare and perhaps that will help convey your sincerity to these kids. Sometimes just knowing that someone cares, can make all the difference. Good luck!
Kathy Jo