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Adulthood: Transitioning Into (Expert Forum)
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Jason Greenberg, Ph.D. - Anxiety, Depression
Transitioning Into Adulthood
New York - NY
Questions in the Transitioning Into Adulthood forum are answered by Dr. Jason Greenberg, PhD. Topics covered include Anxiety, career choice struggles, depression, drug/alcohol abuse, job issues, living on one's own, relationships (parents/family), relationships (romantic), responsibility issues, separation issues, sexual issues, sexual orientation issues
Not talking
by Auntie123, May 23, 2008 12:57PM
Hi
My son is 11 and half. He has always been a sensitive child. On and of in the past two years he has had trouble sleeping but he has after a day or so and then been
okay and slept. His grandfather died a few months ago who lived with him, a month later he went on holiday to somewhere his not been before and stopped talking and sleeping (1-2 weeks then was okay), then 3 weeks later he sat his S.A.T examinations. The day after he started to have trouble sleeping and not slept properly for a week. He was not feeding himself and was being fed, he did not talk for the first 4 days and when he did it was random things that did not make much sense. It is now a week later since he had trouble sleeping. Today he is not speaking again and refuses to eat and drink. We have seen a child psychologist who said "He is stressed and needs to rest" but did not give him any medication for sleep. The local G.P says to let it take it's course and he should come out of it whithin a week or two. It is putting everyone under a lot of stress and effecting all especially his father. I don't know what to do for the best, please can you suggest something or is what the doctors have said what we should do or should we consult someone else. Thank you.
My son is 11 and half. He has always been a sensitive child. On and of in the past two years he has had trouble sleeping but he has after a day or so and then been
okay and slept. His grandfather died a few months ago who lived with him, a month later he went on holiday to somewhere his not been before and stopped talking and sleeping (1-2 weeks then was okay), then 3 weeks later he sat his S.A.T examinations. The day after he started to have trouble sleeping and not slept properly for a week. He was not feeding himself and was being fed, he did not talk for the first 4 days and when he did it was random things that did not make much sense. It is now a week later since he had trouble sleeping. Today he is not speaking again and refuses to eat and drink. We have seen a child psychologist who said "He is stressed and needs to rest" but did not give him any medication for sleep. The local G.P says to let it take it's course and he should come out of it whithin a week or two. It is putting everyone under a lot of stress and effecting all especially his father. I don't know what to do for the best, please can you suggest something or is what the doctors have said what we should do or should we consult someone else. Thank you.
Doctor's Answer
by Jason Greenberg, Ph.D., May 24, 2008 08:35AM
, May 24, 2008 08:35AM
To: Auntie123
Thanks for your inquiry. I will be brief. I am not a child clinician, so I hesitate to comment on your child's condition. But based on the information you have provided, I would recommend that you seek out another consultation for your son. You have received assessments about your son that you and your family do not feel are accurate. I think that your question about how to help your son can apply to anyone who is seeking help from a psychologist or healthcare provider. In essence, if you don't feel confident in the accuracy of a provider's evaluation, you seek out a second opinion. Many people do this for medical issues, the same goes for emotional ones.
Member Comments (2)
by wishforchange, May 24, 2008 02:41PM
To: Auntie123
Sorry to hear of your son's problems. I hope you don't mind my input. I used to work as a Psychologist and with children having emotional problems, but am by no means an expert. I agree you should get a second opinion. Also you may want to consider that if your son was very close to his granfatther he may be reacting to ongoing grief. Alongside that at his age he is likely starting the hormonal changes of puberty. He has a lot to deal with. Just letting him sort himself out may not be enough. There are trained counsellors who may be able to advise you, either through his school or your doctor. I am not suggesting you insist on him getting help if he resists, this will not achieve any good result, but he needs to have the right person to turn to. At his age he may be reaching a point where he feels less inclined to confide in his parents. You know how he has changed, better than your doctor, and if you are worried you should seek further advice. I hope things improve.
