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, May 24, 2008 07:58PM
To: ss
Welcome to our little happy, anxious home! I'm glad you found your way here.
What you are going thru is certainly awful, but the great news...is you've been given the "thumbs up" medically, which is good. While no one really wants to have anxietyGeneralized anxiety disorder Separation anxiety Stress and anxiety....we SURELY do not want the answer to be..."Why, yes, you have something physically wrong which is causing your symptoms." ACK!
Actually...lol...he STILL, decades later doesn't get it. But, he has learned to be supportive in spite of understanding. And, that works for me. I understand that unless you've lived it...you'll never fully "get it"...and that's fine by me. As long as I get the support and compassion I need (and that takes some time for some of our loved ones)....that was all I needed.
Your doctor has cleared you and from what you are saying, this constant shortness of breath is due to anxiety. You mention a lot of worrying, what if medications don't work etc, etc. When one has the classic racing thoughts what if, just notice how fast your breathing is , you will be surprised. Some people clench their teeth whilst worrying and shallow breathe and have a lot of shortness of breath. Hyperventilation syndrome. Breathing retraining ie to breath slower helps for some, this strategy helped me when I was in my early 30's but I seem to have a fair bit of this shortness of breath too. I have TMJ and a deviated septum which doesn't help.
In your case I have a feeling that a good therapist could teach you how to breath slower, something like 10-12 breaths per minute. while resting. Once the breathing is slower , you should feel more relaxed and can work through your issues better and your anxiety should be at a more manageable level.
Regards,
Sumi
Thanks again for your support.
What you are going thru is certainly awful, but the great news...is you've been given the "thumbs up" medically, which is good. While no one really wants to have anxiety....we SURELY do not want the answer to be..."Why, yes, you have something physically wrong which is causing your symptoms." ACK!
Shortness of breath is one of the more common symptoms of anxiety. It's up there on the list. If you search the health pages under "anxiety"...you will see a very lengthy laundry list of different symptoms people experience as a result of anxiety. It's a BIG list, and it is constantly growing, Everyone is unique in how they react to anxiety.
You are already addressing it, and are awaiting your appt...so that's great, I applaud you for that. The sooner you get moving on it..the quicker your recovery will be. And, with some time, therapy, possibly meds if you choose....recovery will come for you. I wish it happened overnight, but unfortunately anxiety is one of those things that truly DOES take some time...patience is a virtue when dealing with it.
"What iff-ing"...which is what you describe...how you are worrying about the meds, your schooling, etc...is also very common in anxiuety sufferers. These are the things that treatment will help you to overcome. You will learn coping techniques, breathing exercises, etc. You will discuss at your eval how you are feeling and what different treatment options are out there...and which ones are for "you". It's a process.
In the meantime...and I KNOW the wait is hard when you are feeling like you do...it sounds like you are doing some good things...the yoga...spending time with friends...finding this forum...those are all things that will help you. If you have a sec..read thru the forum...searching the (anxiety) forum for "shortness of breath", and other similar keywords...and read thru some posts...when you realize just how many people have and do go thru this...you will feel like a weight has been lifted. New anxiety issues is scary, and isolating. A lot of us have also written journals about out own experiences (mine are related to panic disorder and agorpahobia).
Just know that you are SOOOO not alone in this. Anxiety is much much more common than anyone realizes. If you have a close friend or family member that you can confide in and share what you are going thru...that lifts a lot of the burden as well...there is no need to suffer in silence. Stick around here as well...we all are forever learning from one another, and supporting each other. It's like free therapy. LOL
I'm sorry you are going thru this, but you are on the right path.
Take Care...and be sure to keep us updated on how you are doing!!
I am glad i can come on here and find some comfort. I will keep you updated and I am here if you need any support as well.
Actually...lol...he STILL, decades later doesn't get it. But, he has learned to be supportive in spite of understanding. And, that works for me. I understand that unless you've lived it...you'll never fully "get it"...and that's fine by me. As long as I get the support and compassion I need (and that takes some time for some of our loved ones)....that was all I needed.
Again, I'm glad you found us. We are many....lol. Many....and despite an anxiety issue/disorder...alll totally normal people. Well, okay....some of my loved ones may argue that point for me....but you get my drift. :0)
Next. This is very easy. Ever try Benedryl? It's an over the counter antihistamine. You might have some allergy that just is starting to show it self. I never had allergies to stuff and just started in the past few years. It happens. It can even be from dust. You can try something also like Claritin pills. But they will take a few hours to start working and takes a few days of repeated usage to know if it is working. Benedryl stops the allergies in just 10 minutes and wears off after about 6 hours. It does put some people to sleep so try only 1 gel pill or half the dosage. Like a childs dosage. Don't drive for a few hours it will put you to sleep. And it's recommended to ask your doctor or pharmacy before taking any medication even antihistamine.
It's probably just stress and anxiety but it's really easy to rule these other things out. The allergy is the easiest to rule out sometimes just by trying an antihistamine. Just be aware that most antihistamines will make you tired for a few hours. Like alcohol you can't drive, with the exception to claritin which is non drowsy. Not as strong, but non drowsy.
So if these don't help at least you can rule 2 more things out. :)
I don't know what your doctor tested your for, but Asthma and Allergy can be a question to ask.
But what you do describe can be anxiety and most people with anxiety describe the same feelings.