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snippets69 Male Chiang Mai - Thailand Member since Dec 2006
Mood: snippets69 incorrigible
, May 30, 2008 02:22AM
also, I'm assuming you pulled out immediatly or shortly (within a minute) of the condomCondoms Female condoms breaking which makes it even less likely..
Which means you shouldn't be concerned. If you know mathematics/statistics you should be more worried about getting in some sort of fatal accident today.
snippets69 Male Chiang Mai - Thailand Member since Dec 2006
Mood: snippets69 incorrigible
Yes I know the answer, however there might have been something I missed, and since the people in this forum seem knowledgeable, and have experience, then I guess I will stop on this subject at least.
And I have not done this kind of thing before and never will again.
And yes I will get tested at 6 week, however time is relative 5 days have gone by and it seems like a life time. I guess I have to wait 8 more lifetimes.
If she DID have gonorrhea (which you really don't know), it COULD make her more infectious, but HIV is still not an easy disease to transmit.
If she used a condom with you, she probably uses them with everyone...Which means she most likely doesn't have HIV.
Get an antibody test at 6 weeks and collect your negative.
Getting HIV=1/500 (high risk)= 0,2%
Rate of transmission with other STD 0,2%*5=1%
PEP success =80% thus 20% falue
So getting HIV =1% * 20% =0,2% (getting HIV * PEP falure)
Does this seem sound?
I know you're not going to believe me, but your chances of getting HIV are extremely slim...Somewhere in the order of 1 in 20,000 at most.
So please tell me how you got the 1/20000, which sounds good to me, but considering I work in a mathematical field I need it justified.
The 1 in 20,000 was a guestimate that came from 1/2000 chance of catching HIV if the woman had it (at MOST 3% chance in the "high" risk population she's part of..Though for her it's likely much less since she appears to use condoms)
that's .03(.0005)=.000015
Which means you shouldn't be concerned. If you know mathematics/statistics you should be more worried about getting in some sort of fatal accident today.
Now another one. What are the chances my family getting it just by living with them I mean sharing food utensils, sharing bathroom etc. This is my biggest fear. If I was stupid that’s OK but if I even have a chance of passing on to my family then that’s a big problem.
And to make you feel even better, I'm not doing this to make you feel better (if that makes sense)...These are the facts. A single instance a condom break during penile/vaginal sex with someone who uses condoms regularly I wouldn't consider close to something that should rent space in your mind. I'm NOT saying don't test, but the chances of you being positive are as likely as what we've already discussed...which is to say... Don't let this rent a single second's space in your head. There's minimal concern here.
If you'd told me you were repeatedly having unprotected sex with prostitutes or having multiple instances of unprotected sex with an infected partner or sharing needles or some such it would be a different story.
And I have not done this kind of thing before and never will again.
What are the chances that the HIV virus connects to a T-CELL if no PEP is used, once the virus enters your body? With high and low Viral load.
And yes I will get tested at 6 week, however time is relative 5 days have gone by and it seems like a life time. I guess I have to wait 8 more lifetimes.