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Your recurrent ear infections may be due to some anatomic problems in the development of your ears and to a structure called eustachian tubes (the tubes that connect your middle ear to the nasal cavity). Problems with this tubes will cause inadequate drainage of middle ear fluids that makes it prone to infections. Your ENT plan of putting a tympanic tube sounds appropriate. I seem can't find a strong correlation with your present problems with the previous ones, I also doubt if this has something to do with TMJ.
I hope that your ear problem will get fixed soon, and the pain would be adequately controlled. Take care and God bless.