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Sexuality & Relationships (Expert Forum)
Is There any harm to have oral sex.....?????
Answered by
Janice M Epp, PhD - Female sexual issues, Adolescent sexuality, Male sexual issues
Private Practice
Palo Alto - CA
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Doctor's Answer
by Janice M Epp, PhD, Jun 18, 2008 06:34PM
, Jun 18, 2008 06:34PM
To: aki09
Hello Aki:
Oral sex is no more harmful than kissing--or any other sexual activity. In fact, it's quite a common behavior, and many people greatly enjoy it.
Everyone seems to worry about being "normal." In fact, we're all normal, and whatever is usual for you is “normal” for you. However, because we all grow up in an atmosphere of sexual myths, in a society uncomfortable about sex, most of us are trying to find that elusive “normality” so we can fit in with what we think everyone else is doing.
It’s more important to know what you want and what you like and then examine whether they work for you. Naturally, I’m speaking of consensual activities and not nonconsensual violence, which is not really sex at all.
One last point: any activity that exposes you to infection or disease can be harmful unless you use risk reduction techniques--oral sex included. So play safe--and have fun! Dr. J
Oral sex is no more harmful than kissing--or any other sexual activity. In fact, it's quite a common behavior, and many people greatly enjoy it.
Everyone seems to worry about being "normal." In fact, we're all normal, and whatever is usual for you is “normal” for you. However, because we all grow up in an atmosphere of sexual myths, in a society uncomfortable about sex, most of us are trying to find that elusive “normality” so we can fit in with what we think everyone else is doing.
It’s more important to know what you want and what you like and then examine whether they work for you. Naturally, I’m speaking of consensual activities and not nonconsensual violence, which is not really sex at all.
One last point: any activity that exposes you to infection or disease can be harmful unless you use risk reduction techniques--oral sex included. So play safe--and have fun! Dr. J
Member Comments (3)
by jml1986, Jun 19, 2008 11:19AM
I say enjoy!
by Ookami11, Jun 27, 2008 12:14AM
Its an amazing way to show each other you care.....
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