I strongly belive my Girlfriend is using Heroin but when I have asked she keeps gettin annoyed with me. I have found burnt foil & a burnt spoon, she keeps asking me for a clipper lighter and then I hear her inhaling something. I also found an injection which she denied she had.
Then I found brown powder in foil which she said was coffee, she also said the dr gave her morphine for pain. My partner is a very lovely girl with kids and now says she hates me after I got upset when hearing her having sex with other men who climed out the window when I arrived home and kept leaving the front door. She keeps saying I am just thinking this and its not real why would she keep upseting me by saying this when I saw it with my own eyes. We recently went on Holiday & she said she dont wanna go back home cause they wont leave her alone when I asked if she was on drugs she kept saying no now she denies all this when I try to ask her, Now I am worried about her and that I may have caught Hep C from unprotected sex this has really ruined my life and I have recently been diagnosed with having MS. I need some advice on what to do and am I imagening all this as she keeps saying I have seen everything with my own eyes and I have never suffered with any form of paranoia in all my life. My partners kids really love me and I love them to bits and most importantly if she is doing Heroin I want her to quit but she wont admit anything just get annyed when I try to talk about it. Now that we aint together I feel that this is going to make her continue doing Heroin. Help is very much apprechiated Thanks and God Bless..
If your girlfriend is using, you can't make her stop, that will only make her want to use more. you can be supportive of her but she has to want to quit. you can do hard love or threats but until she is ready, she won't quit. sorry but went through this with my son. you need to realize you are a victim of her drug abuse. be strong, will pray for you and your girlfriend
Karen
You just described yself to a tea when i was using sorry mate but your girlfriend needs help asap.
Not all Heroin addicts prostitute themselves but I do agree Hep C is prevalent in the IV community's I have been married 27 years this July and my husband has never contracted it, It is passed by blood meaning dirty needle..
My boyfriend is an ex heroin addict. but now uses oxycontin only.
and you described him perfectly.
my advice to you is.
buy a drug test from walgreens.
tell her you want her to take the test in front of you.
(it would involve her urinating in front of you)
if she refuses and gives excuses.. then she is a liar...
and if she tries to turn it around on you... for example: blaming you for not trusting her, and refusing to take the test because you should trust her... then you know she is using heroin.
it soudns to me she is. have a serious talk with her, and tell her you wont be mad if she admits to it.
also. you need to be careful. heroin addicts, especially the ones that SHOOT UP are not very clean. women will usually prostitute themselves for money... and they often use dirty needles that they share with other friends/addicts...
BE CAREFUL AND FIND OUT NOW IF SHE IS USING THAT ****!!!!
XoXo BarBie
YES.
SHE IS USING HEROIN OR OXYCONTIN.
I 'm an ex Heroin addict I can point out just a few that make it obvious
Tracks on arm
Itching
Nodding
Runny nose (needs fix)
Weight loss
missing valuables
Constipation
Vomiting (usually after fix)
Friends are Heroin addicts
I'm sorry for you as you love the girl, Please take care of yourself, As you know a junkie has one love while using and will steal lie and manipulate to get what she needs.
If she has all those symptoms I think you already know the answer...Im sorry been there myself (the heroin user). I hope you can get her the help she really needs.
If your lady has the symptoms you list, it would be hard to not think she is using.....good luck with this and with her - she can quit, but you cant quit for her