OT sorry I just need to vent. My friend is about to drive me NUTS!

[mj_mommy_manda]

Okay.. So my friend is 15 weeks, I am 21.  So as with every pregnant women, things are really different as opposed to whats happening with me and whats happening with her.  Part of it having to do with the fact that we are 6 weeks apart also.  But I pretty much popped around 13 weeks.. Not like huge, but if I would wear a tight shirt you could tell I was preg.. I was really small before being preg and also have a very short torso so I think thats why I got big so fast.. She is also really skinny but has a really long torso.  So shes 15 weeks and not even showing yet.  I ask her stuff like "do you have a belly yet?" and stuff like that when we text eachother because I just like to keep updated and also I like to update her about my stuff.. and lately alot of exciting things have been happening seeing as how Im getting further and further. So I ask her today if she is getting any bigger and she says "A little but not really" so Im like geez.. I wonder when you are going to pop! lol and then she texts me back and is like "I dont really care. I just hope i stay small" and im like "oh.. well I like my belly now that you can actually tell Im pregnant.." and shes like yeah. and then I was like "The baby got hiccups today.. lol it was so cute" and she was like "how do you know?" so i said "Because it felt different than kicks, like little spasms or bubbles popping." and she just says "Oh" so then we arent talking and im sitting there watching tv and she texts me and shes like "Ian said its not possible for the baby to get hiccups because it cant get air in its stomach through an umbilical cord, it can happen at like 7 months but not before that.. westlin said they learned about it in anat phys and they dont get them till your really far along."  So this just pi**es me off.. Im like wtf.. like why is she acting all jealous and B***hy? so I send her one back and im like "Ok.... Guess I have no idea what Im talking about.. Look it up.. Im not just saying it.. You can clearly tell the difference when you feel it.. why are you trying to argue with me anyway? I know what I felt" and she says nothing back.. because she probably went on the internet and realized I was right..but this isnt the only time she has acted like this.. in fact she does stuff like this ALL THE TIME! Like my babys dad and I are doing really good lately and thinking about moving back in together and I told her about it and all she does is compare it to her situation with her babys dad.. who lives an hour away and she never sees.. Or tells me that it wont work.. or that hes immature.. and then she brings up stuff about herself and expects me to be nice to her about it when she is just a complete B**** whenever I tell her anything?!!? WTH!! why is she being psycho?? Somedays I just want to B**ch her out.. but then she would get all p**sed off at me.. God.. any advice?

[whitlack]

It sounds like two pregnant women with raging hormones.....LOL!!  It does sound like she may be a little jealous since she is probably not as far along as you.  I would try to keep friends b/c I have a really good friend who is just 4 weeks ahead of me and we have so much fun talking about pregnancy stuff and comparing our pregnancies!!!  But if you feel like she brings you down more than anything I mite just back off for a while.....she'll come around eventually!!  Good luck!!