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He chose to go out to New Mexico (from our home town of San Antonio, Texas) to live with my son. Though my son was adopted and he and my Dad never met until my son was 10, it was an instant love match. Dad spent his last days with my son, daughter-in-law and grandchildren and except for the fact that my Mother had passed a few months before he moved I believed it was just about the happiest time of his life. He got to be Grandpa and he got to be with my son whom he adored.
I suppose it sounds silly to worry about this a year later but it has been bothering me. More so of late since the 1st anniversary of his passing was 2 weeks ago. Last year Father's Day was the day after my Dad died and my wife and I were rushing the 800 odd miles from San Antonio to Truth or Consequences NM to take care of his arrangements. This year - due to 08 being leap year - Father's day was the day BEFORE the anniversary of my Dad's deathDiscussing death with children Gangrene Liver cell death Loss of a child - resources Sudden infant death syndrome and my wife was in South Carolina with her dad. I was alone that day and the next. I went alone to the National Cemetary at Ft. Sam Houston where my folks are. It was hard but I believe I have a duty to go and remember them.
I suffered a very mild one, receiving only a very small problem with memory loss and speaking, it occurred in a part of the brain called the Thalmus, if you're wondering...
To put it very, very simply, the brain does not possess pain receptors, so therefore your father probably didn't feel anything in his head. If anything, your father would have experienced pain coming from his liver, but that is highly doubtful, for nearly all with Hepatic ischemia do not experience any pain.
If it is any consolation, your father was most likely at peace when he died.
- stjimmyisgone
I suppose it sounds silly to worry about this a year later but it has been bothering me. More so of late since the 1st anniversary of his passing was 2 weeks ago. Last year Father's Day was the day after my Dad died and my wife and I were rushing the 800 odd miles from San Antonio to Truth or Consequences NM to take care of his arrangements. This year - due to 08 being leap year - Father's day was the day BEFORE the anniversary of my Dad's death and my wife was in South Carolina with her dad. I was alone that day and the next. I went alone to the National Cemetary at Ft. Sam Houston where my folks are. It was hard but I believe I have a duty to go and remember them.
Bionic Bill