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I NEED HELP!

by WonderingBeauty, Jul 01, 2008 02:50PM
Hi, well i'm 15 1/2 years old and i was suppose to start my period on the 21st of June. Then, in the afternoon, of the 30th, i had really light bleeding. Then today it seems a little heavier and darker. Usually my period lasts about 6 or 7 days and during the first 4 days it's really heavy. I've been having some signs of being pregnant, such as the sore breasts, nausea and vomiting, and some cramping. Should i take an at home pregnancy test or is there nothing to worry about? Please help i'm seriously confused about this. ANY advise at all with help greatly. And like i said, i'm only 15 1/2 years old! So please!
Member Comments (58)

by pinkladybug, Jul 01, 2008 02:53PM
I think you need to take a test! you will feel better if you do! you should try and talk to your parents or at least a dr. there are pregnancy places that you could go to as well for help. I wish you the best

by WonderingBeauty, Jul 01, 2008 02:56PM
To: pinkladybug
Thank you! Actually i have been talking to my mother about the possibility of me being pregnant. She has told me to take it easy and we'll find out when i get back home. You see i'm on vacation. Do you think i should take a test out here or wait until i get back? Because i seriously dont know when i'll get back home!

by K1990, Jul 01, 2008 03:02PM
Take a test now!

by WonderingBeauty, Jul 01, 2008 03:03PM
To: K1990
Ok. Thank you!

by K1990, Jul 01, 2008 03:07PM
Let us know!

by WonderingBeauty, Jul 01, 2008 03:10PM
To: K1990
I will! If i am i'll  be on here a lot!

by tiredbuthappy, Jul 01, 2008 04:22PM
wow. i don't think my mom would've said to take it easy and to test when we get home. your mom isn't worried or has no problems with the possibility of you being 15 and pregnant???

hopefully it's just normal, teenage hormone and cycle fluctuations. take a test to make sure. and if you're not pregnant, talk to your mom about getting you on the pill.

by pinkladybug, Jul 01, 2008 04:27PM
good luck and yes take one now!

by WonderingBeauty, Jul 01, 2008 05:19PM
To: tiredbuthappy
That's the thing..i AM on the pill. I've been on the pill since i was 14! After my mom had the sex talk with me...

by Kim1989, Jul 01, 2008 05:39PM
if your on the pill i would say your not pregnant. but always use a condom. the pill can effect your period and your so young your periods arnt regular yet

by WonderingBeauty, Jul 01, 2008 05:41PM
To: Kim1989
That's why i'm worried..We didnt use a condom and the day and 2 days before we had sex i had forgotten to take my pills...would that have anything to do with it? And for being so young my periods are basically regular. They come about the same time every month. Thats why i got so worried.

by Kim1989, Jul 01, 2008 05:43PM
yes that can and will effect your period. always use a condom

by tiredbuthappy, Jul 01, 2008 06:12PM
It seems your mom didn't do a good job with the sex talk. You may want to get it again from a planned parenthood.

Pills are not 100% effective. My mom would only have 4 kids instead of 5 if they were :)

Pills do not protect against STD's. Unless you are married, you should NOT be having sex without a condom.

Forgetting to take your pills or taking them at a different time everyday increases the possibility of the pill not working.

Take a pregnancy test. If you are on the pill and have been for so long, then there is no other reason for your period to be late.

I have to say, I am very surprised that your mother condones unprotected sex at 15, and that she is so casual about the possibility of pregnancy.

Pregnant or not, you need to see a doctor anyways because of all of your other symptoms. PLEASE let a medical professional and NOT your mother provide you with information about sex and babies in the future.

despite bleeding, you can be pregnant, or you may be miscarrying. Until you know, make sure you avoid ALL drugs, cigarettes, and alcohol. I hope your mother doesn't buy that for you as well...

by tiredbuthappy, Jul 01, 2008 06:13PM
by the way, I am a strong advocate for sex ed in schools and providing children with accurate information and safe contraceptives. This is one of the reasons why- they are not getting it from home!

by WonderingBeauty, Jul 01, 2008 06:18PM
To: tiredbuthappy
My mother DOESNT condone sex without a condom. She is upset at me for that. She's just telling me to take it easy cause i'm not at home at the moment. And yes i know that i shouldnt take drugs, ciggarettes, or alcohol. And i'm going to a very crappy school..We've NEVER even had one sex ed class.

by tiredbuthappy, Jul 01, 2008 06:52PM
well, let us know what happens and if you have any other questions. good luck.

by ashleyh, Jul 01, 2008 07:03PM
To: wonderingbeauty
I now at ure age using a condom isnt always the top priority one ure mind when things start to heat