Am i pregnate even though we wore condom but ripped ?

[bethany1]

Okay, so it was just yesterday...July 1st, 2008! Okay, i had sex for my very first time with my boyfriend.He pulled out before he was about to pre *** and *** all the way. But at the end, come to find.The condom ripped where the head was at on the condom.We use studded trojan condom.
But, im like freaking out and can't stop.Because, im so worried....
I used the restroom right away too in anycase! and drank water,juice and made myself pee alot.Like 4 times that day/night.
But the first time when i urined, the end of the rubber was in toilet floating.So, am i pregnate or not?
And this ***** because my big sister constance shes 22 and pregnate already and expecting next 3 months or so..
and im sure my mommuh doesnt want another baby on the way...
Also how many days am i ready to take the pregnacy test?
and my period should show up next week  which is July 7th,2008.

[Kim1989]

peeing is not going to stop your from getting PREGNANT****
you have to wait till your periods due to test.
when was your last period

[bethany1]

my last period was on june 9th.
Great... Last thing mom needs.

[mami1323]

You can get Plan B.  It is the morning after pill that is very effective in preventing fertilization.  If I were you I would go to the pharmacy and ask the pharmacist for it.  The time I used it I had to ask my doctor for a prescription but I've been told you no longer need one.  Sperm are very fast swimmers and it really doesn't matter how many times you go pee, they have already made their way up.  You have about an 88% chance since it happened in the last 24 hours, so don't wait just go.  I do believe they are like $50 though.  Can you speak with your mom about what happened or maybe your sister can help you?  I hope you decide to maybe not have sex for a while after that because you can see that condoms are not 100% effective in preventing pregnancy.  Sometimes they do break.  If you do still wish to continue being sexually active, you may want to look into birth control pills or the depo shot.  Use that, plus condoms to at least have a back up just in case the condom does rip.  Good luck and I hope it all works out for you.

[Kim1989]

ok well i dont think you were fertile first off because going by your last period..... conception would have occured Monday, June 23, 2008. but yes i recomend getting plan b and then speaking with your mom about getting birthcontrol. because if your going to be having sex and dont want a baby bc is a good way to aviod that as well as using a back up like condoms

[bethany1]

Okay this is the thing though! he pulled out and i saw him pre *** though.
soooo theres no way in hell i am... i dont know why i keep on worring if i am or not..
stressing alot..
but trying not to because it can **** up my period.
badly...then ill think i am and then ill worry more... then like die of worriedness.
LOL.idk...just trying to make myself feel a bit better.

[Kim1989]

yes you can get pregnant from pre *** but you werent ovulating at that time going by your lmp. and you can get plan b and that will makes it so that if you were going to get pregnant, the egg would not implant and you wouldnt get pregnant. go ask your sister about it

[bethany1]

well, of course i can tell my mom anything! but, i didn't tell her i had sex yesterday though...But, i usually  tell her everything! But i told her today this morning i need to talk to her when she gets back from work.if i get a beating...oh well...ill take it. man if this little rug rat sprouts in me....i hope it wont mess up my ARMY career in the future!
and i would go to the pharmisist but my mom is still at work.soo this *****...
ALOT!

[Kim1989]

ok well if your going to take plan b you need to take it within 72 hours of sex. so your clocks ticking. you cant get it unless you 18 in most states otherwise you have to go to the doctor to get the ok to get it form the pharmisist.

you need to get on birth control

[bethany1]

he didn't pre *** and *** on my little woman area though!
cause i kicked him off me. and he was on the floor and just let everything loose.
LOL and it looked like a fountain! =D!

p.s. trying to make myself feel a bit better.

[Kim1989]

you and he cant tell if he did pre ***. you usually cant see or feel it

[mami1323]

Relax, can you speak with her over the phone so at least maybe she can pick it up with you.  I'm glad though that you have your mom to go to.  I don't think she will beat you but I'm sure she probably would have liked to know what your plans were before you had sex first.  This way this whole situation could've been avoided.

[bethany1]

well, i geuss im trying to deny is so much...
i hope in not.i hope to god im not.it would succckkk.

[Kim1989]

i dont think you are

[pertykitty]

i hope you were able to relax and start your period.  i am so excited to hear you have such great career goals, but having a baby at your age will mess that up.  we all want to try sex and see what its like, to do things that are sometimes more than we can handle at 15.  i suggest waiting.  having a baby is a very hard thing to do , and at your age even more difficult.  there is nothing greater than having a child when you are older, married, stable, READY.  at your age you should not have to worry about that at all.  birth control can fail, condoms rip, pills are not effective because they werent taken correctly or you became sick while taking them (diarrhea or vomiting) or taking antibiotics.  so many reasons to wait.  plan on your future, sounds like you have a great one mapped out already!