Bleeding after sex... pregnancy problems?

[mizz_kaci_xo]

I've been having sex for two years now. I've never had a problem with bleeding after sex. Recently I started dating a new guy and we've had sex twice and each  time I have bled. I HATE TO USE TYPICAL TEEN PHRASE, but it as if each time we have sex I'm getting my cherry popped all over again. It doesn't hurt during sex, but almost as soon as he slides out I am bleeding and My entire vaginal area is sore. Is this a medical condition and Will it have any effect on the ability to get pregant?

[martikadragoon]

It could be his size, is he bigger than the other guys you've slept with? It could be that he's bumping into your cervix causing the bleeding and if he's big he'd be stretching out your "area" more than your used to causeing the soreness.

I'd suggest, if you don't want to get pregnant right now, and if your not already, that you use protection. Also... some women can be allergic to Latex in condoms.. and rarely sperm too.

So maybe switch brands if your using condoms (A GOOD IDEA)

Other than that you need to speak to your OBGYN, and if your not seeing one you need to ASAP. Sexually active women need to see they're OB every 6 months or so for a Pap smear and exam. :)

[PhoKISonYOU]

It sounds like his size is hella bigger than what your girl is used to. From my understanding it can get used to that size BUT he may have bumped up too much causing you to bleed and not stretch the way you should have because of him hitting your cervix.

[BTS1022]

It could be a number of things, First off even if your using protection, I would highly reccomend getting tested for the STD called Clahmydia(sp)? I know when I had it, it caused me to bleed like that after sex. And it also caused me to be highly uncomfortable after sex.

If you do have this STD and do not get it treated it can lead to PID, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, which in turn can get so bad that it makes you sterile and unable to have children.

After being sexually active for 2 years, the size of your mans *Stuff* shouldn't be an issue, especially if you and him are sexually active often. Not to brag.....But my hubby is the biggest I have ever been with, and at first it was very uncomfortable, but about the 3rd time of being intimate things were much easier.....until I came down with Clahmydia lol.

Good luck, and I would seriously get tested, even if this man didnt give you an STD you never know if another partner had it when your were intimate with them. It is always a good idea to get an STD test for everything under the sun every 6 months, especially if you have or have had multiple sexual partners.

[mizz_kaci_xo]

I have gotten checked for std's and I had a pap smear done recently so I know its not like a sist or anything. He is bigger than what I am used to but I had been sleeping with a guy about his size for like three months earlier in the year and didn't have any problems which is why it is confusing the **** out of me

[martikadragoon]

IDK then, maybe ask your OBGYN about it? If there was a couple months in between the two guys... your "girl" coulve gotten Un-used to being stretched out....

P.S. (I've gotta ask this since ive got no experience) but doesn't a big guy hurt like h*ll the first few times??

Srry. I've been w/1 guy only my whole life since I was 16 and married him.. hes not really big but not small either, just above average I'd say. :)  i've always been curious tho.

[BTS1022]

lol, I love your question, it put a long needed smile on my face lol. Im not going to brag, but DH is quite endowed in that region, and at first I wanted to run away from it lol, and it was very painful/uncomfortable the first dozen times, for me anyways. But after a while your girlie area seems to form to it, kinda like that memory foam stuff lol.

I just thought Id answer with what experiance I have, but everyone is different, and sometimes I wish DH was average sized, because being endowed in that area sometimes makes you have to work over time lol.

[tarrah87]

PROBABLY JUST THE SIZE HAPPENS FREQUENTLY WITH THAT

[mizz_kaci_xo]

actually nah it didn't really hurt me to take his size. For me I changed to suit really quick but for him it was kinda hard for him to accept that i was so small and to get in. lol sorry that kinda makes me laugh a little.

[motherofan18month]

the first guy i ever slept with was so small that he never "popped my cherry".....the first time i had sex with my bf (now my hubby) he popped it! it didn't hurt to uncomfortably but he is above average in size and i did bleed for quit some time after words..my doc said it was due to his size that i bled for such a longer period after we had sex than the period when you just lose your cherry......but if after a few tries and bleeding continues then you need to see your OB! ..............best of luck!