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7yo doesn't want to poo in the toilette

by gabon32, Jul 13, 2008 10:45AM
Tags: poo
My 7yo nephew never pooed in the potty and doesn't want to poo is in the toilette.
He is a shy kid and his parents tried everything having being to two different psychiatrists, from putting entertaining materials in the toilet to promise rewards.
He still uses the nappies which get dirty when he cannot keep it anymore, and I'm worried because he will start school soon and this problem might isolate him from the other kids.
It's clear that this can bring also to very serious health problems, after the social ones. I'm wondering if hypnosis is the last resort.

I would be glad if you have some recommendation to sort this very unconvenient problem.

Many thanks, chr
Member Comments (3)

by pertykitty, Jul 13, 2008 11:42AM
he hasnt been in school for a few years already?  are you not in the usa? we start school at 5 so i am confused.  where does he poop?  i think if by 7 it hasnt been figured out shame on his parents!!  this thread sounds slighty fake so hopefully you can come back and clear some of this up.....i cant imagine a shrink saying putting toys in the toilet at this age, maybe you just have a typo on the age part.

by gabon32, Jul 14, 2008 03:21AM
Hi Pertykitty, I'm Italian (and live in UK) but my nephew lives in Hungary, with his family. Not sure about Hungary, but I can ensure you that in Italy can happen that a child starts school at 7. I started at 5 but normally it happens at 6.
I initially blamed the parents too, but after I've been told they have been to two different psychologists without improvements I thought it might be the psychologists incompetence.
Let me know if you have other specific questions and I'll try to answer them.

Cheers, chr

by tiredbuthappy, Jul 14, 2008 07:24AM
does he have any other unusual behaviors? it is not normal for a 7 year old.

it is common for children to fear pooping in the toilet, but that usually passes by the time they're 4. i did have one student (4) who was scared to poop in the toilet and always asked for a diaper. her parents had a great solution- they would put the diaper on her when she had to go, but made sure she did it while sitting on the toilet to get her used to the idea of sitting on the toilet. since she still had the security of the diaper she was ok with it. one day they cut a hole in the diaper, and sat her on the toilet as usual. the poop went through the diaper into the toilet. this helped her see that there was nothing to fear and from that day on, she used the toilet normally.
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