Jatoo

[Kimchi]

Have not heard from you in a while and wondering how Melody is doing.  Last I heard, she was on  5FU  and Oxaliplatin.  Please check in with us and let us know how you are both doing.

[vegas2cr]

Was wondering the same thing myself... great minds must think alike.. ronni

[Jatoo]

She finally arrived at her permanent home on June 10 after developing infections/pneumonia from second surgery at UCLA. (Diagnosed June 30, 2005, stage 3C)

Her confessor said that, "She is one of the most prepared souls to enter heaven". She had been offering her sufferings for souls. She was one of the most thoughtful and caring persons you can ever encounter. She made friends very easily and converted them into loyal and lasting friendships.

In the final analysis, the most important thing and what is worthwhile is to be able to enter heaven. What is 10, 15, 20 years compared to eternity? "Oh Death where is your victory. Where is your sting?"

I am blessed to have her as my wife. June 11 was supposed to be our 20th wedding anniversary. Although with grief, I can say that all my prayers have been answered that she be "cured", permanently cured without fear of recurrence - no more sufferings and enjoying eternal bliss. I know she is helping me right now from heaven.

Thanks for your concerns. I have prayed for all the members of this forum.

Jatoo

[vegas2cr]

I hope that you can find light in this your time of darkness.  I am glad that you feel she is cured permanently and home... May G-d continue to bless you and your family.... Ronni

[nyc lady]

Jatoo - there are no words to say.  As lucky as you feel to have had Melody in your life, she too was lucky to have had such a wonderful caring companion by her side.

My thoughts are with you and your family.... may Melody rest in peace.  Another angel watching over us.

Thank you for all the wisdom and support that you have offered all of us on this site.

My sincerest condolences,
Pam

[alanpvegas]

I am sorry for your loss, she sounds like she was an exceptional woman!   You have been and are an inspiration to your wife and everyone here!

[marie3B]

Your words are beautiful.  I am touched.  I am sorry for your loss.  Marie

[butterflytc]

May God hold her in the palm of his hand. Thank you for sharing, during your time of grief. She is at peace now, and I wish that peace in your heart.
butterflytc

[SimplyStar]

With all the help you have given so freely to all of us and at the same time was beside Melody in her fight with OVCA,  I truly understand your saying that she has finally gone home, God will give her peace now and you gave her Love.   I feel so terribly sad whenever I read about the death of one of these courageous women. Thank You Jatoo for all the help you have given to me, for my daughter,  God keep you and  Bless you.  Marty

[Steve H]

I too was wondering how things were going, when I read this, I was shocked, but understood. As you say, Melody is now free of pain and suffering, she is with my wife Vi, looking and keeping a careful eye on us. Remember to good times, however also remember the bad, it helps to understand, she will always be there when you need her, ask for guidence, advise, she will give you pointers on which way to go I know my wife does this for me. The hurt goes slowly away, the memories get stonger day by day, laugh with her, cry with her when you need. Steve

[Kimchi]

I am so sorry to hear this news.  You are so fortunate to have had such a wonderful person as a wife, companion and friend for 20 years and I feel a sense of relief for both of you now.  You are both at peace knowing that the suffering has finally ended.  I like what you said about Melody being one of the most prepared souls to enter heaven and she will always be at your side, watching over the man who loved so much.

Thank  you, Jatoo, for being a part of this forum and sharing all the knowledge you gained from this terrible disease.  I apprecicate all the information you posted here, every bit you shared has helped me in one way or another.

[Hazel30]

I am so sorry for your loss.  I know how much you cared and loved Melody and took such great care of her as well as helping everyone else on this forum.  You are right she is not suffering anymore and that is comforting to know.  God Bless.

[Brownie3321]

May peace be with you Jatoo, you have been such an incredible support to all of us as well as your wife. With love, Deandra

[coogeegirl]

I want to send you my sincere condolences at the loss of Melody, and I am glad that you are getting peace out of knowing she is no longer suffering.

Hugs

Jenny

[Jatoo]

A million thanks to all your condolences. We are indeed part of a big happy family which knows no boundaries.

Jatoo

[Kathy70]

So sorry for your loss.  May peace stay with you.

[Jan214]

I am so sorry to hear about Melody.  She was certainly blessed to have such a loving husband by her side throughout her battle.  I hope that now that Melody is finally at peace, that you too will find peace in knowing she is in good hands and blissfully pain free.   You have been so wrapped up in being a caregiver these last 3 years that it will take time to adjust to a different life for yourself.  Don't let people tell you it is time to move on, as they seem to so quickly these days, but, on the other hand Melody would not want you to be unhappy.  I hope for both your sakes that you find comfort and peace enough that you can have a contented life.
You have been a wonderful asset to this community and your care and dedication to all of us will not be forgotten.  You will be in our hearts and prayers.
Jan

[gma718]

I feel so sorry for your loss...May you find peace in knowing Melody is finally pain free and comfortable.....May god watch over you and your family...Gia