Older male taking for ever to ejaculate

[Toni_2008]

I'm involved with an older male, he's 56 I am 23. During intercourse when he begins to ejaculate he goes on what seems to be forever. I don't know if this just an older male issues but the amount of sperm and the length of time for him to finally finish is becoming more and more of an issue for me. I'm starting not to like it at all. I'm waiting for him just to hurry up and finish. I don't want to hurt his feelings as I'm not sure if he is over trying or what. It's just too much and I am also concern with how much sperm is being left inside of me. I really think it's way too much for a normal man to produce. I suggested maybe he should have it checked out but he said he always shoots large amounts of sperm and he likes to hang on to his ejaculation as long as he can because it feels good etc. I don't think I can get used to this at all. It's  starting to become more painful to me that enjoyable. I know he is trying to please me but what can I do to have him end sooner. Is there any pills that will shorten and ejaculation?


This discussion is related to Delayed Ejaculation.

[teko]

You are only 23? He is 56? Well, let me tell ya something. The older you get, the longer it takes you to do anything, so you should not be surprised. They came out with viagra to help em get it up, but not sure if there is such an animal to bring em down. Is he on viagra by any chance? :O

[AJH84]

Wow. I'm 23. I can't imagine being sexually involved with a man 33 years my senior.

Ummm...I can't offer any advice for him, but for you I can. Maybe it's just me, but I think you should be involved with a man that isn't old enough to be your father. I'm not saying that because I think it's odd, I'm saying that because if you stay involved with this man, eventually the age difference is will most likely present a problem. Physically, emotionally, and/or working with finances. If the relationship were to progress, I think in time, certain aspects of the relationship will end up being unfair to both of you because of both of you.

[AJH84]

LOL!

[SixStringer]

This sounds normal for him--everyone is different.  But this is interesting as usually the women are complaining that the guy gets over too soon!  It sounds like he's got his thing together.  Are you reaching climax or do you just want to get it over with for other reasons?  You might try oral for a change--one at a time or "69"--but you would have to plan on what to do with all that ejaculate, if you don't swallow it all.  If you like him otherwise, talk things out, as he no doubt wants to please you, as you say.