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Thank you
Also just to clarify - you've never had sex with her so far correct? did you both get general screenings done or something ?
grace
So that's where it all gets blurry. As you know, anybody could have had something for years. I'm waiting for my results, but have had to wait extra time because my doctor's office forget to send off my blood for two days.
Thanks.
Your ex is going to have to check with her own provider to see if she's ever been tested for herpes before. Her 1.9 result is positive but it can also be a false positive. It' sup to her and her current man to sort thru all that and figure it all out.
grace
Sam
grace
I'm being emotionally strung out with my tests. This morning I got a first batch of tests back, which were tested for five infections and all came back negative according to my fill-in doctor (my actual doctor is gone for the day) and there are no antibodies.( I'm not really clear on what that means)
But he said the other results are still pending that being the actual herpes tests. You gotta be kidding. It's been 7 days. I still have to wait for their phone call on the herpes result.
So, can anything be gleaned by the lack of antibodies? Or the negative result for infections? I want to be more specific but the doctor on the phone was vague and rushing me.
Thanks Grace
When you talk to the doctor, have him take the time to answer all of your questions. Don't ever let them rush you off the phone. Your health care is as important as anyone's.
Its not uncommon for some tests to take longer than others.
Aj
Thanks for your response. As to the antibodies to what -- I don't know because I simply asked for a herpes test and it turns out all these blood results that I didn't even know I took are coming back and it threw me. I just wanted a simple herpes test. I never knew it was possible for a doctor's office to handle a simple test this badly.
In the sense of not sending the sample out, lying to me about it, giving totally wrong time frames of when the results would come back.
I'm sorry its been so confusing. :( It shouldn't be this hard.
AJ
You're right Aj, it shouldn't be this difficult but it was brutal. I believe that's what happens when an office screws up -- it has a domino effect. They'll tell you the results will come in a couple of days just to appease you because you're upset that they forgot to get the samples out. Then the results don't come and things escalate big-time.
To anyone on the verge of taking tests, make sure they get them off to the lab promptly. I learned the hard way that you can't assume everything is gonna run smoothly.
Also, make certain how long the tests will take. I was told 3 days, which ended up being 8 agonizing days, including the weekend. I learned after the fact that my tests take longer than normal as Aj mentioned.
Thank you to you and Grace for your assistance and concern. You two are fantastic for giving up your valuable time to help others.
This forum is awesome for all its knowledge. I've learned so much about herpes. I'm going to be visiting just to keep up-to-date on various things.
Keep up the excellent work!
Best Wishes,
Sam