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What we know is that about 50% are positive at two weeks and 85-90% by 4 weeks. Thus it is reasonable to assume that about 75% will be positive at 3 weeks. EWH
1, The partner. Unknown HIV status but we both know that sex with a random partner of unknown HIV status is riskier than having sex with someone whom you know or whose status you know. Even so, odds that he was infected on a statistical basis are probably less than in 10%. Thus it is unlikely that he was infected.
2. The exposure. The odds of HIV transmission though rectal sex. if your partner was infected, are about 1 in 100 with the odds for the insertive partner (you) being lower than for the receptive partner.
3. Your symptoms. While they occur at approximately the right time for the ARS, when studied, less than 1 in 100 people with a flu-like illness characterized by the symptoms of the ARS turn out to have the ARS. It is far more likely that you have some sort of non-specific viral illness, not ARS.
Putting all of this together, while there certainly is risk associated with your exposure, the odds are still very much in your favor that you do not have HIV. A first HIV test at about 4 weeks will give you about a result at a time when 85-90% of tests that are going to be positive will be and will be highly informative. In this situation some would suggest a HIV PCR test, I do not because false postives in this test are much more common than in the antibody blood test and thus could suggest you are infected when in reality you are not.
I hope this helps. Please keep us posted on your tests. EWH
As far as causes of swollen nodes are concerned, the list is very long and includes not only many viruses but also bacterial infections, non-specific inflammatory responses due to things other that infection (i.e. medications, allergies, etc) and much, much more. Evaluation of swollen nodes should be done in the context of complete examination and evaluation with your doctor. From your post it sounds that the first thing to sort of is if your nodes are swollen (you indicate that your two doctors are not totally in agreement on this) and then go from there.
As for syphilis, the timing and findings are not right for your symptoms to be syphilis unless there is something you've forgotten to mention in your post. If you had swollen nodes from syphilis, your blood test would be positive. Good luck. EWH
I think I saw a post the other day that 3 weeks gets you to around 75%?
Is around 75% testing positive that are going to test positive an accurate figure for 3 weeks?
This thread is getting too far into "what if questions" which have little value to you. Please, no further questions. EWH