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how to trust again?
by upside_down, Jul 19, 2008 08:32PM
Hey I've never done anything like this before but I am really struggling at the moment. A bit of information about me first to help you understand. I suffer from depression and anxiety and I hate it so much. I feel miserable all the time and react differently to things then normal people do. I understand that this can be hard on the people around me that I love. But you should know that it is just as hard on me. I am engaged to the person I consider to be my sole mate. He knew about my condition before he asked me to marry him and we do have some amazing times where I am so happy and he calls me a little bouncey ball.
So about 2 weeks ago I found conversations on my boys computer between him and a girl. They where a little more then just friendly if you know what I mean. I am gutted. I know that my condition is hard on him and he is struggling just as much as myself to look after me I still love him so much and aspects of our relationship have been so much better since I confronted him. My problem now is that I don't trust him anymore and constantly think he is lying. It doesn't help that the girl keeps posting things on facebook about him. I literally feel sick at the thought of it. I hate being the jealous girlfriend. I never thought I would be like that. I don't know what to do. Leaving him is not an option for me. I love him to much. How do I learn to trust him again?
So about 2 weeks ago I found conversations on my boys computer between him and a girl. They where a little more then just friendly if you know what I mean. I am gutted. I know that my condition is hard on him and he is struggling just as much as myself to look after me I still love him so much and aspects of our relationship have been so much better since I confronted him. My problem now is that I don't trust him anymore and constantly think he is lying. It doesn't help that the girl keeps posting things on facebook about him. I literally feel sick at the thought of it. I hate being the jealous girlfriend. I never thought I would be like that. I don't know what to do. Leaving him is not an option for me. I love him to much. How do I learn to trust him again?
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by upside_down, Jul 19, 2008 08:45PM
I just thought of a valid piece of information. The reason I mostly feel the way I do is becasue they had a emotional connection going. Thats stuffs hard to break.
by Hoping4_2, Jul 19, 2008 09:38PM
What are we going to do with these men girl??????
by upside_down, Jul 19, 2008 11:20PM
I don't want to do anything except live happily ever after. It wasn't meant to be this way.
by Hoping4_2, Jul 19, 2008 11:55PM
I know. That's just how I feel. We have been married 4 1/2 years and have been nothing but happy until this week. It *****!!!!! Sorry for the language, I'm still very upset.
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