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Huband has adhd,bipolar? &who knows! He just left me!
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Janice M Epp, PhD - Female sexual issues, Adolescent sexuality, Male sexual issues
Private Practice
Palo Alto - CA
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Huband has adhd,bipolar? &who knows! He just left me!
by catez, Jul 20, 2008 07:47AM
Question?
My huband and I have been married 10 years. He cheated on me one time and the guilt has been eating him alive every sence.He has mental problems I want to get an order called ECO to have him evaluated but the magistrate refuses to do a thing and tried to arrest me.I'm not aloud back on the property at all.That's for just trying to get my huband the help he needs.He's been this other person I don't even know he's not the man I married.We seemed to be trying to get things together for him to take the meds. and work on our marriage.He loved me so deeply he didn't ever want to lose me.But then he meet this women born the same day as him and he started pulling away from me and more time spent with her. It was just a friendship at first but I don't know now I think it is what they call a mental affair! Well with all this ragging anger he said i don't love you anymore and was very hateful to me and he moved out yesterday just like that! He said he would go to marriage counceling but lied about that.I need help I don't know what to do! I don't even know how to get the ECO order to help him! At this point I feel helpless that the love of my life has gone and i'm not even sure he knows what he's doing at all. I've cried for 6 hrs. or more didn't think anyone could do that! Sorry this was so long I needed to tell someone about my hel whole i'm in! please help i'm alone and lost. Thanks
My huband and I have been married 10 years. He cheated on me one time and the guilt has been eating him alive every sence.He has mental problems I want to get an order called ECO to have him evaluated but the magistrate refuses to do a thing and tried to arrest me.I'm not aloud back on the property at all.That's for just trying to get my huband the help he needs.He's been this other person I don't even know he's not the man I married.We seemed to be trying to get things together for him to take the meds. and work on our marriage.He loved me so deeply he didn't ever want to lose me.But then he meet this women born the same day as him and he started pulling away from me and more time spent with her. It was just a friendship at first but I don't know now I think it is what they call a mental affair! Well with all this ragging anger he said i don't love you anymore and was very hateful to me and he moved out yesterday just like that! He said he would go to marriage counceling but lied about that.I need help I don't know what to do! I don't even know how to get the ECO order to help him! At this point I feel helpless that the love of my life has gone and i'm not even sure he knows what he's doing at all. I've cried for 6 hrs. or more didn't think anyone could do that! Sorry this was so long I needed to tell someone about my hel whole i'm in! please help i'm alone and lost. Thanks
Doctor's Answer
by Janice M Epp, PhD, Jul 20, 2008 04:36PM
, Jul 20, 2008 04:36PM
To: catez
First, get yourself to a counselor who can help you help yourself. You have many issues to sort out, and a counselor can help you do that. Once you've decided what you want to do, the counselor can also help you decide if or when to contact your husband. No one can predict what he wants or will do without talking to him, so the two of you will benefit greatly from seeing a counselor together if he's willing. If not, you'll need to take care of yourself and begin your future life. Good luck to you. Dr. J
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