your thoughts please help me im in destress.

[scared352]

I went on a buisness tripp for work. All the guys decide to go to a strip bar and I joined in. Please no lectures as I know i have made a very bad judgement call here. When I received a lapdance the girl fondeled her virgina exsiting it. As she was touching me I leaned back closed my eyes and opened my mouth. She then placed her fingers in my mouth this was unexpected I thought I was just going to enjoy a grind session. Ok i freaked out and went to the bathroom and washed my mouth. Drunk and not remembering much I think i swallowed before i made it to the bathroom. I rinsed and then went home and washed my mouth with listerine, brushed my teeth and even swished with more alchohol. (dont think this helped.) 2 weeks have passed and my lips seem to look different a line under them lookinng alot like a rash. I have a slight fever about 99.5 my skin is begingin to itch all over and to make matters worse I have developed a red pin head dot on my finger it hurts pretty bad when touched or rubbed. Pretty sure i didnt do that a work. On my stomach i have developed itchiness and a small bump filled with white fluid. Ok but what really concerenes me is my lips i developed a small bump almost like large pimple but doesnt hurt and no fluid is present as of yet. My lips dont look normal the way i have always seen them they seem to have a rash under the lower lip. I have gone in for testing and I am awaiting results. Please can some help me and provide some info im going crazy. On my first day back simptonless I had sex with my wife and now im scared for us both.

[auntiejessi]

You are not going to get an std from that, and I wonder if your symptoms are from the alcohol you used after, or they are anxiety, along with a pimple.

You are fine, and I am sure your tests will be negative.

Aj

[scared352]

Hey Aj thanks for your comment. I need to update this some more since there is more going on. Doctor tested for HIV, Chlamydia, Ghonoria, Hepatitis a,b,c,. All came negative. I was happy relieved and feeling better. The next few days symptoms continued and worsening. My skin burns and itches, My body is fatigued, it hurts to urinate, my left testicle retracted and was painful, my eyes began swell, my skin is hypersensitive to clothing, sunlight, and last but not least I am sure I have small bumps some red in color and others white on my arms and stomach. Went on line and did a little research on one of the pictures I found spots and bumps of herpes 2 and boy did it look like the same thing. I know what your thinking some of this may be in my head. I promise its not I am scared but these symptoms should have gone when I got my test results. I think I may have herpes 2 and mono that is why the symptoms seem not to match anything. I went  back to the doctor and he gave me Cipro for the pain in urinating and then took a throaght culture and he said he was going to check for herpes with that he is also taking another STD test to double check. Worried because my eyes hurt so bad I went to the Optomologist who checked my eyes. He said at this time there is no sign of any herpes in my eyes and gave me an eye medicine to stop the burning, itching and light sensitivity. He said its probably not in my eyes.

I know this is a lot guys but please check my post and info and let me know your thoughts. I am still very scared and worried. Please provide me with any info you can. Please don’t close my post since my symptoms seem to continue. Thank you.  

[auntiejessi]

I can't close your post like they can in the doctor's forum.

Herpes might be causing some of this, but it wouldn't cause the testicular retraction or the abdominal pains.  Cipro can cause cramping though.

Herpes also wouldn't cause all over body burning, etc., but I'm not sure if you meant the skin in your genitals or your skin all over.

The problem with doing herpes blood tests right now is that they won't be accurate if you just had the encounter 2 weeks ago.  A culture of the pimple things wouldn't be accurate at this late date, either.  The only thing you can do is try an antiviral and see if that helps at all.

I'm sorry you are feeling so badly and aren't getting any resolution.

Aj

[auntiejessi]

Also, you aren't going to get an std from your encounter, so its time to focus on other causes.  Maybe it is mono, but your doctor can do a simple blood test to find out.

Aj

[scared352]

Aj thank you for being so kind and letting me know your thoughts and information. I do remember tasting vaginal fluids quite profoundly. It was dripping with fluid, im sure before it went into my mouth ( that is my way of describing how much fluid could have been there.) Ok if that much fluid has a low to no risk of infecting me with any STD's. Could it be that she was about to have a herpes outbreak and skin on skin contact and/or fluids cause me to possibly catch herpes 1/2? I have been reading on the net that there is a low to no risk factor for HIV and medium to low risk of herpes simplex 1 and 2. with this type of scenerio.  I like your thoughts better that it could be mono or something unrelated to that night. I trully hope that is what it is. I just wish my body felt better. A freind said she could have had the stomach flu or something rutine and it has caused my body to react this way. Please reply again since you are making me feel better with the possitive responce. Ill post my new doctor results as soon as i get them.

[scared352]

oh and sorry the burning is in my thighs, stomach, arms neck and chest and yes im sure going to say that doesnt seem like herpes. Thats what has me even more scared.