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[angie1976]

I had a miscarriage/D&C (1st pregnancy) in early April, I have had two cycles since then, my period is late (I'm on day 37 of my 34 day cycle) and have had my pregnance test come up negative. Could there be something wrong...should I be worried?


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[mamaofonetrying42]

I would wait it out a few more days and test again, if you are still getting -. Go and see you dr. Good Luck :o)

[leighanne143]

i would wait a few more days.  After my d and c, my cycles were a little off.  some were longer than others.  You should take another pregnancy test like 3 days after the last one you took.  Good luck:)

[angie1976]

Thank you very much. This is all just so confusing to me. Lol! I just worry that maybe I am and that maybe something is wrong. =(

[angie1976]

My last one was today lol...
I feel like I am pregnant...but then I think it's just all in my head where I want it so bad. =)

[leighanne143]

angie- the best thing for you to do then is try to stay calm, which is easier said than doen.  but maybe if you try not to stress, then your period will come, or maybe come this Friday you might get a BFP.

I had my last MC in Feb 08 and by the beginning of June got a BFP.

[cindy82]

so sorry about your loss. i had to have a d and c last year from a missed m/c also. it was nov 19 2007. since them my periods have been way off, anywhere from 5 days late to 2 week and i have even skiped a month.i went to the doc about it and he just told me that it could take some time for my body to get back on track. before hand it was every 31 days right to the day.

[mamaofonetrying42]

Hang in there. Like the Others said, it could take awhile for your body to get back on track! But I too know how you are feeling! I had a missed m/c back in Sept. 21,07 and got pregnant again after only 2months. I am now 39weeks!!

[angie1976]

Thank you Cindy...iI to am sorry for you loss. It just ***** being in limbo on such an important topic.

[angie1976]

Lol...you're right, it is easier said then done (ha-ha). I am trying super hard, but it seems to be the only thing on my mind. :-(

[angie1976]

Congrats!!!! You give me hope!!! =)

[leighanne143]

hang in there.  i did get pregnant within 2 months after my 1st MC but that resulted in another one.  I don't like to tell people that cause i don't want to scare them, but you can get pregnant and have a healthy pregnancy pretty fast.

[angie1976]

I feel terrible that other people have had to go through this, but it makes me feel better to have people to talk to.

Today is a hard day...one of my best friends just found out she is pregnant and it is the last thing in the world that she wants. It just isn't far!!! I just keep telling myself that everything happens for a reason. =)

[leighanne143]

that's what you have to do.  keep giving your self positive energy and try not to focus on the negative, it does help.  I did that too, every that got pregnant after my losses i was mad at but finally, after working with a therapist i realized that i could not do that because i was not benefitting from it in any way.

Hang in there.  test again on friday if af doesn;t show and maybe you will get a huge surprise.

[michelle148]

When you have a m/c your cycles sometimes get throwen off, i had a m/c in Nov 07 and May 08 and my period in June was fine bag on 38 days this month i was late and have had the weirdest period!!!!! If you still havent had you period in a few days then test again and if its a negative wait a few more days and test again and if still negative i would go and see your doctor just to check that everything is ok.

[angie1976]

Wow...I'm sorry that you to have gone thru this!!! Our bodies sure do not operate that simple do they (ha-ha)? I think I will wait until Sunday (will be day 40) and if there still isn't anything I will test again. =) If not...I'm sure my husband won't have any problems with "trying" again (ha-ha).