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Doctors dont seem to want to know! please try help

by angel190208, Jul 23, 2008 12:18PM
Hello every one i dont know if any one can help me but my local doctors dont seem to want to help i had  a misscarride back in feb i lost my angel at 11 weeks.  and ever sice we have been trying to concive but dont seem to be getting any were and my period has been like clock work upuntill the last 2 mounth i am ment to be due on the 23rd of every month but thge last 2 month i have been coming on on trhe 1st and then the 6th why would it start to mess up now it feels like its nevre going to happen there is no reason why i should not be able to fall on has any body had a simlar situation or had a m/c and gotton pregnatant  agein quite soon or even at all the doctors just dont want to help.  I dont underdstand why its not happening has any body got any tips i have tryed every thing Thanks

Kirsty x
Member Comments (7)

by deanne11, Jul 23, 2008 12:20PM
I got pregnant rather quickly after my first 2 m/c, within a month or two.

With my 3rd loss it took 4 months to get pregnant, I was around 10 weeks.

If you are young and that was your first m/c, there really isn't anything the Drs can do.  They usually say if you don't get pregnant within a year, then come back for a consult.

Have you used an OPK?

by angel190208, Jul 23, 2008 12:27PM
To: Deanne11
I have not used an OPK would you recommend to do? and have they ever worked for
you?  as many people have told me they dont always work and its been almost 6 month and i just can not see it happening. all i want is for the doctors to do a scan to make sure evrything is ok every one i have spoke to who had a m/c has fallen on a lot faster that myself thats why i think there may be a problem. and now i have started to have irregular periods i dont know what to think

by deanne11, Jul 23, 2008 12:32PM
After not conceiving for 3 months after my d&e, I used the OPK in January 07 - had my son in Oct 07.

I still use the OPK for birth control believe it or not.  I can be on the pill, so it helps to know when to double up on protection.

Love it!

How old are you?

by angel190208, Jul 23, 2008 12:37PM
I am 20 this year so still young i have been with my partner for five years now so even if 12 month passed i can not see the doctors doing much for us i gues time will tell

by lilpixie, Jul 23, 2008 12:46PM
it took me three months to just get a period after my mc back in dec but i got preg two weeks after my 1st period so just hang in there it will happen when your body is ready.

by angel190208, Jul 23, 2008 12:48PM
thanx hun it just feels like a life time away

by deanne11, Jul 23, 2008 12:48PM
Yeah - you are way young.

The Drs won't do much for you at this point.  

And as long as you are ready, but I'll be honest....most people aren't ready for kids at 20.

I wasn't at 30....it's a huge change.

Do you have any professional schooling behind you?  Maybe that should be your next step....and the baby will come at some time in your future.

You have plenty of time.  I'm glad I waited.  I could not imagine getting pregnant when I was 20...and yes I was in a relationship, with someone (engaged to be married)

I was within him from 16-22....and guess what?  It ended.  

Very glad I didn't get pregnant by him.  Even though that's what we thought we wanted.

Maybe...just give it some time.
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