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Any STDs that cause a bump or lump?

by Bob1212, Jul 23, 2008 06:41PM
Tags: lump, bump, cause
I went a little insane in Feb. from non-stop stress and non-stop snow all winter, so one day I just drove towards a warmer climate and finally camped in the boonies near Las Vegas and tried to de-stress and fix my head. For 2-3 weeks I kept in touch with my wife and she finally understood and told me to get better and come home, so that is what I did.  I know a couple of times I went to the city and got very drunk to try and forget all the dumb things I have done and I am a lightweight so I haven't a clue what happened after I got blasted, BOTH times. I woke up in a park a mile away from where I thought I should be once and didn't remember anything. Stupid me, I know.
Fast FW to now. I have been home since about late March now and it is 4 months later. My wife asked me to look at what she described as an irritating thing along with a bump/small lump at her urinary opening and I didn't have a clue so she went to a Dr. today (actually a Nurse Practitioner, but a good one) and after an exam was told to see a specialist because it is likely a cyst..BUT she also said there might be some other possible things it could be, however the Jr. Dr. said "she wouldn't go there".  When my wife told me that on the phone, I started getting worried. I have had genital herpes for the whole 13 years we have been together and I told her that within 2 days of meeting her. A previous fiance passed it to me and I soon found out she was an alcoholic/addict and I ended that.  I have always been careful since and my wife hasn't got it because I HAVE been VERY careful with her.
Now who knows what I brought home.  I understand that I might not show any symptoms for the only thing I have come up with for her symptoms, which is chlamydia, but no mention of any lumps or bumps that I could find. So could clamydia cause a bump or a cyst?
If I gave her an STD, it would likely end our marriage, and I am just getting back to liking our relationship again now that I have a stress-free job and life.  THIS is stressing me bigtime and I just don't handle it well ....
Any help or advice is appreciated.
Member Comments (3)

by auntiejessi, Jul 23, 2008 07:35PM
I responded to this in the chlamydia forum.

Aj

by Bob1212, Jul 23, 2008 09:18PM
Thanks, I just thought it would be seen more here and, consequently, get more responses.

by auntiejessi, Jul 23, 2008 10:06PM
That's fine.  I just didn't want you to miss my response to you in the chlamydia forum.

If others have opinions, please share.

Aj
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