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[blueeyedtabbycat]

I am an emotional wreck tonite:( And this is the 2nd time I am typing this because my oldest accidently turned off the computer on me...UGH!!
So my hubby asked me if he could go out with his friends tonite and I said yes because he hasnt been out in a long time. Well he went to a local carnival that I wanted to go to. He said he would bring me and the kids if he could get off work early enough tommorrow (I dont think he will) He said it would be closing at midnight so he would be home shortly after. Well I just called him at 12:30 am and he said he was still there but his buddy wants him to go to some other bar. I said I thought you would have been home by now?? He said he was having so much fun with his buddy from work and they were hanging out with friends from his buddys high school. So I sarcasticly said so i'll see you around 3 or 4 am and he said something like that!! I said I gotta go and that I was really jealous and he said dont be, you only have 32 days to go! I am happy he knows how long I have left in this pregnancy but pissed off and jealouse that he is out drinking with his buddys on a friday night!! I know he is a man and needs his male bonding time but the buddy he is with is single and always looking. I unrderstand that I am pregnant and even if I wasnt that I gave up the bar scene ages ago when I desided to have children. But I guess its just horemones right now:( I wish I could be hanging out with my friends:( I am a stay at home mom and have been for over 2 years. I never go ANYWHERE without my children unless its with him and thats very rare cause we can never find a sitter.I am sorry that im venting I just wish sometimes that I could go hang out with friends while he stays home:( But like I said this is very rare for him to go out. Im just pissed that im sitting at home waiting for him.......................:::::::::::::::::((((((((((

[Latrice414]

GM Blueeye, im sorry that your home waiting for him,(men can s-uck sometimes) im sure he didnt mean to do it on purpose and maybe just needed some male bonding.  You no us women can be very emotional and the b word being preggo.  Maybe you should let him stay home with the kids one day and treat your self to a pedicure and manicure before you have the baby, just some quiet time to relax for yourself.

Just try not to stress yourself out:)

[blueeyedtabbycat]

Thanks I just needed to vent..I feel a little better now:) It just ***** cause I wont be able to sleep untill he gets home safe:(

[martikadragoon]

Blueeyedtabbycat~ I forget how old you and he are??  I think that it was rude of him to not take you and the kids to the carnival, however as long as your pretty sure he’s not getting into major trouble, I’d be alright if my dh went out with buddies for a night, even if he stayed out most of the night as long as it was a ONE TIME THING.
I can feel your pain tho and I’m really sorry he’s being such a jerk.  However, I’d be pretty p*ssed off if my dh decided to hang w/friends rather than hang w/me or take me out if he never normally does.
If I’m a SAHM like you, I will be d*mned if I let DH go out w/out me and leave me home w/our son (unless he‘s been helping out enough that I can forgive him for 1 night)!!!

Srry, I’m a bit all over the place right now. It’s almost midnight, and I’m staying up to hang with DH for an hour before going to bed. I’ve gotta be up at 6am. UGH and like you I can't sleep until he's home safe. :)

[blueeyedtabbycat]

I am 29 and he is 32. He better make good on his promise to leave work early tommorow night!!LOL!!
I guess what it all boils down to is that im jealous:( Its 2 am here and im tired and bored!! I cant wait to have this baby...I am so uncomfortable right now, ugh!! Maybe i'll get a girls night out afeter #3 is born and I can have a bloody mary!! MMmmmmm!! I would have a virgin one now but I get such bad heartburn!!

[JoyRenee]

That's a bummer! What time did he end up coming home? I can see why his "company" made you so upset. He needs to find someone else to hang out with! Like someone who is a father and married?!

[carissarae]

i agree and disagree on this one lol

i agree that it was rude and he should have waited and went to the carnival with you and your kids(and he better still today!! or id kick his butt lol)..

but how often does he really get a chance to go out with the guys? and how often will he get a chance to go after the baby is born? (and i know they always get more guy nights then we do our girl nights! not fair) but my view on it is, i wouldnt want him to get mad at me if i wanted to go out and have a girl night every once in a while and decided i was having to much fun to come home, sometimes that happens especially if it has been awhile! you need that adult interaction and as long as it doesnt happen all the time i wouldnt get upset about it.
i know those hormones are out of control. mine get that way to :) and sometimes i just freak out for no apparant reason haha

[blueeyedtabbycat]

Its been along weekend:) Sorry I havent been able to get back to you:( He ended up getting home at about 5am, whitch in my opinion is WAY too late for a family man to be coming home after a night of drinking!! He called me at about 2:10 am and said he was on his way and by 3 am im getting worried so I called him and he is sitting up at his job (right by the bar) "chatting" with the night dispatcher!!!! Now mind you I have never met this girl but I have heard that she has slept with at least 4 guys from work since she has been hired!! He told me he was just trying to sobber up!! I was pissed!! I offerd to come and get him when he called me ealier and he said he was fine!! Guess not!! He asked me if I was pissed and I said YES!! I had been waiting for him to get home!! He could have called and said he wasnt leaving right away so I wouldnt worry! So he says he is really on his way this time and will leave in the next 5 minutes...............I waited untill about 4 am and no Jamie so I called again. His excuse this time is that he was helping load a car for the night driver (He works for a tow company) That made me madder because I highly doubt that they would have hired someone that wasnt able to hook and un hook a car and put them on the overnight by themselves!! I told him to get his Azz home or I would be coming to get him!! I waited untill 4:#0 and still no Jamie!! UGH!!! I was pissed I called 4 times and no answere!! Finally the 5th time I called he picked up claiming he was driving home than. The music was loud so he didnt hear the phone!! My butt!! He didnt make it home untill a few minutes after 5 am. He works about 20 minutes away!! Sorry this is so long but I was so mad that night/morning!! He came in the door hicupping so loud that I could hear him in our bedroom!! Than he wanted to cuddle....yeah right!!!
Well the next day I was still pissed off cause I had plans to go to the zoo with a friend of mine and her daughter and two nieces and I was so tired!! She wanted to go by 9 am so between staying up untill after 5am and getting up every hour to pee, I was exausted!! Jamie was still drunk/hung over  the next morning , I really didnt expect him to make good on his promise. So I spent the day at the zoo with my friend and a bunch of kids, finally I came home cause I was beat! I could hardly move. Me and my kids took a nap and when Jamie got home I made dinner and we ALL went to the carnival!!! It turned out to be pretty fun:) I had 2 sno cones a pork chop on a stick, cottan candyand corn on the cob!! MMMmmmmm it was so good!! We even watched the fireworks:)
Than on sunday we got up early and went to his job to help out with the parade! We had planned to ride along in his tow truck that was in the parade but when I found out the woman were walking and passing out candy....I couldnt resist. I joined them::)))) So I wqalked in the parade and passed out candy. My oldest joined me but only made it about 1/4 of the way befor jumping in the 4 wheeler:) My youngest son rode alonge with daddy:) It was fun, but very very hot!! I got behind a few times and had to run to catch up.  I made it the whole walk while everyone eles took breaks riding claiming it was too hot and they were tired:))) I was the only pregnant walker and I am almost 36 weeks!! And they were tired, LOL:) After the parade Jamie's boss took everyone out for pizza:) It was a really good day and weekend. Sice I wasnt planning on walking in the parade I am paying for my stupidity with blisters all over y feet!! I was wearing really cute sandles with about a 2inch wedge on them....not good for walking:(
Sorry this is so long:( I hope you had a good weekend:) Didnt you start your clomid??? I hope it works this month!!!!

[blueeyedtabbycat]

I totally agree with you on this I just let my hormones take over that night, lol! I know that he doesnt go out very offen but it seems like when he does it always turns out like this or worse.
We did end up going to the carnival the next day and I was a little sad knowing he was there with out me the night before:( There were so many pretty girls there and all of them dressed up and skinny:( Not fat and pregnant:( And to know he was hanging out with them and partying:( Another side affect of hormones.....self pity, and jelousy, lol!!