what should i do?

[julieanna12]

I'm 19 years old soon to be 20 and i been with my boyfriend (mike) for 3 years now i love him with alll my heart. Hes only 3months older than me so since we were 16 we been toghter. When he was 14 he made a big mistake and that was he had sex with his girlfriend at the time and got her pregnat along she was telling him he was not the father she said that she cheated on him with this guy Jay and she got the guy Jay to go along with it saying it is his kid. My boyfriend was young and didn't really understand or care to much i guess. While we were dating thse pass 3 years my boyfriend has been there a lot for the baby because what he though was the father jay was arrested and not around so mike felt bad and did help is ex girlfriend (ashley) a lot. Now the baby is 5 years old and he looks just like my boyfriend and he knows that so he always questioned his ex (ashley) and she said stuff like " your happy with julie, your going to start your own family sometime in the near future i hope" and stuff like that so pretty much she was saying yes so mike got an DNA test done and it turned out it is his she lied to him along she said she lied because he was to young and she didn't want him to go through that so young. Now she is engaged to a guy (rob) and the kid thinks rob is his father. the kid looks at mike as a friend and big brother. I honestly do love that kid hes cute and funny but now its different to know that its my boyfriends kid. He doesn't want to tell the kid the truth yet becase hes to young to understand and he doesn't know if it will bother rob. So what do we do? and how am i going to get through with it when he calls my boyfriend  daddy if that does happen? How akward is that when its not our kid? How can i bond with him still? Im going through mixed emotions please help.
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